You're posting in the Clyde forum and you can't figure out breakfast? Poser.
If 35 miles is a long ride for you, eat what you're used to. Experimenting with new foods before a significant effort is always a bad idea. The first time i rode a century, I psyched myself into a weird carbo-load dinner the night before and "high energy" breakfast in the morning. I got diarrhea at about 40 miles and had to stop and **** every six or eight miles thereafter. That's fairly common, so stick with your normal breakfast. Don't worry about the kids. They'll either go back to sleep or they won't, but either way, you won't be there.