You guys have scared me. I have mild BPA that I treat with Avodart and have assumed it will get worse over the years (I'm about to hit 62). But, other than a couple of nightly wake ups) it doesn't interfere with anything. What is all this stuff about no riding,skiing, etc? Does it get painful? Or are we talking about the unfortunate effects of pressure and jolting on an un-emptied bladder?