I'll look into new saddle. I didn't get any numbness like I was getting on the mountain bike, and I'm built like a guy. I'm very apple shaped, not pear shaped (which was why I told the guy I wanted to try the Defy before the women's version). I'll give this a go again and see how I'm sitting on it and report back. As I'm sitting here now on my hard computer chair, the biggest issue is the bottom of my butt.
Also, do they make moisture-wicking undies? Because if they don't, they really should.