Here is a little secret I have about screening for potential relationship problems. I always introduce a new guy to my: 1. animal family, 2. the bikes and 3. the human family. I note their reactions to these groups and see it he will be part of my life or not-since these are very important to me and screening out the "duds" from the "wonders" save me time, money and heartache when things will go wrong-and trust me they will.