Originally Posted by
El Cid
This biking thing is a red herring. You're not looking for an activity partner, you're looking for a woman. And you're doing it because you feel a distance in your own marriage that you can't close. If you genuinely want this problem solved, then drop the pretenses and talk to your wife about seeing a marriage counsellor.
Excellent advice. Specifically seeking a female riding partner is simply masking deeper issues.
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar!