Originally Posted by Avalanche325
You have to push the crossing spoke away just a hair to kep them from touching.
Actually, not. You are listening to both spokes resonating at once. I aim for a G. Taking a pair of crossing spokes and squeezing them together gives a pretty good feel for correct tension. e.g., spokes pairs singing at B feel quite a lot tighter than those at G. You should be able to move spokes pairs a few mm towards each other when squeezing them together like that.