The Axel isn't THAT bad a fork. I would see about changing the springs to a heavier spring rate based on your weight. I just installed a Black Comp on my buddies bike and was impressed with it.
I'm currently riding a RS Psylo SL, and in the past I've been skeptical about RS products, but so far it's been great!
My favorite fork is a Marzocchi, and not the Air version. I'm a clydesdale (225lbs) and prefer the feel of a coil spring.
Also, you should consider the 20mm thru axel version of whatever fork you choose. It makes the front end SUPER solid. It adds some weight, but the added stiffness makes up for the extra weight.
BTW, I bought my buddies Black off of ebay for $150!
I just bought a Axel (for my single speed project bike) from a member here for under $100.
L8R
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