Oh, that's a big introduction trEkkiE1200
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Sometimes it can take a while to get a bike 'dialed in'. I've been lucky and never had any problems with getting my bikes set up correctly for me. Don't worry about men's saddles/women's saddles overly much. Saddles are so highly individualistic it's enough to drive one mad.
Welcome to BF!
East Hill
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