that's why i said "or whomever." i don't know how grey got it. from the animosity, i deduced that the sender didn't give it to him/her.
if it was an email message, then, technically, no one should have it except the sender and recipients. don't know what happened from there. oh well, i just think it was the right decision to remove it (and you will very very very rarely hear me say posts/threads should be deleted).