Sun Rhyno Lite laced with DT Alpine III spokes (which have been reengineered and solved some issues they had in the past), with any good hub like Shimano 105's would make a very sturdy wheel.
But if you don't have confidence in any one around you to build a good wheel then try Peter White Cycles, Peter White specializes in wheels and will build one to suit your weight and provides a LIFETIME warranty! While he may be a tad more expensive then from Nashbar or whoever, but they will be far better wheels.
http://www.peterwhitecycles.com/Wheels.asp
By the way, most catalogue wheels are built for riders weighing about 180 pounds, thus the ones you mentioned more then likely will give you grief.