Welcome back. I only stand if I need to stretch the legs, climbing (bridges) or if I want to accelerates through an intersection when I get a green light, but I am never in the drops when I am standing. I typically ride with my hands on the hoods, more comfy as I have fairly wide shoulders.
I agree, your bars might be in the wrong position, loosen the stem bolts and rotate it back toward you.
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Brian | 2023 Trek Domane SLR 7 AXS | 2023 Trek CheckPoint SL 7 AXS | 2016 Trek Emonda ALR | 2022 Trek FX Sport 5
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