I think there are plenty of bikes that are not "racy". There are tons of comfort bikes out there, you could always buy a frameset and build it up exactly how you like it for comfort. I would say that the majority of people who buy road bikes, and ride them quite a bit are at least fitness enthusiasts and should learn to set up the position correctly. Most people who buy road bikes are into at least going fast, and pushing their limits. There are a few poseurs, but they don't ride a lot, the rest of us ARE racers.