Going to a 25 will soften the ride but only if you drop the pressures a bit. I only use 23's- because that is what I like but then again- I do not use any of the tyres you have mentioned.
I use Michelin Pro Race 2's at 130 to 140 psi. Most run them at around 100 to 120. Depends on your weight but a heavier rider will need more pressure to stop Snakebites. I am only 150lbs but still run the higher pressures.
If you want a "Performance" tyre then it appears that there is a popular choice of 2 Mich PR2's and Conti 4000s (The s is important) The ride of both of them is good and puncture resistance occurs with both.
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