Wow, thank you ALL so much for the advice and encouragement! I am definitely NOT giving up hope, especially not after all the suggestions you guys have made. In fact, I registered this morning for a 34 mile ride and will start in with the LBS right after work today to make some trial adjustments and start working towards making my new hybrid more long distance friendly just for me.
Along with the pure enjoyment I have found in riding so far, you guys have definitely reassured me that I want to be in this for the long haul so I will definitely stick around to learn the tricks and take advantage of your cumulative experience to keep me............on the road!
With much gratitude!
Froudone in Katy, TX