Originally Posted by
ecrider
Having your Best Man die not only gives you a sense of loss, it also reminds you of your own mortality. I think you're wise to seize the day and enjoy the friends and family that are still with you. I think a lot of us in the 50+ forum are in the same boat. My condolences.
+1... that is pretty well-said. You are not alone in having these feelings. The accumulated scars from these sad events really can enrich our lives though.