I can't say this is the most fun I've had in life, but one has to notice that even as she was taking drastic steps towards the destruction of our relationship and moving on in a new direction...
She still made sure the money from our savings went to get me that bike, and still said how proud she is of my progress.
Well then, i MUST be doing good, I just gotta keep it up.
As it stands, there is NO POSSIBILITY of us getting back together, and I actually find comfort in the certainty. The mist has lifted, I can see my goal. It's kind of sad that it doesn't include her, but them's the breaks and it's HER loss, not mine. I'll find someone who is not materialistic, and who knows the meaning of monogamy.
As soon as we close on the sale of our house and I am sure everything of hers is out of here, I am heading up to Michigan for a little vacation and to scope the place out.
I'll start a new thread for suggestions where to ride and who to meet once I know a little more.