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Old 05-15-15, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted by njkayaker
RR3 is a soon-to-be topic of discussion at the local grand jury!
You are a libelous idiot to suggest that I have committed any crime or will before a grand jury. I am not defending the assailant or his actions. He committed two assaults and one battery. Those are facts. Now go cry to the Moderators. I await your apology.
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Originally Posted by FliesOnly1
I honestly try not to flip off drivers anymore. But I also try to do nothing whatsoever once they go by. I think most any action will result in a confrontation with some drivers. It is difficult sometimes, to simply keep my head down and continue on as if nothing happened.. One thing I found that does sometimes work, though, is to wave and say "SORRY" before they actually get by and have a chance to "express" their anger. I start my wave when I feel them coming out and around, and I look over and mouth the word "SORRY" before they have a chance to do whatever it was they wanted to do. Sometimes it throws them for such a loop that they actually wave back. It's sorta funny, in a strange way.
Yes, its hard to do nothing, I failed just a couple of days ago. Those who think the cyclist in the OP was free of culpability are just kidding themselves, or choosing to be willfully ignorant.
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Old 05-15-15, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel


And I know a family member who had a friend of a friend of a friend who died from cyanide laced tylenol.



I've flipped off many hundreds of motorists without being menaced, assaulted, or shot at.
Uh, your story is 4 times removed. My story is it was my girlfriend. Not a friend of a friend of... BS.

But that's OK... if you think it never happens, just keep on.

BTW that doesn't mean I condone either the finger the cyclist flew or the motorist.
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Old 05-15-15, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by njkayaker
So, you consider even actually hitting someome as "safe".
No, of course not... (hence the reason I specified over and over again "technically." But apparently you don't read well)

But the law does. If there is no specified distance, and the cyclist wasn't harmed... then no jury would EVER find the motorist guilty of unsafe passing.


Originally Posted by njkayaker
States that don't have three-foot laws use no standard.

For the states that do (and what is otherwise recommended for a specific distance), three feet is clearly the common standard. A few (one?) specify a four foot distance. (The four foot distance makes your "safe" argument more silly.)

21 US states have 3 foot (meter) laws. As a law, it's common. Some European countries do as well.

Minimum Passing Distance | Bicycle NSW

And Georgia (where, it seems, the incident in the OP occurred) has a three foot law.

The notion that the pass was "safe" merely because he was lucky not to have been hit is dopey.

It's as dopey as basing what distance to pass, through telepathy, I guess, on the "nerves" of a particular cyclist.

There was good no reason for that driver to have passed as close as he did. In Georgia it was illegal.
Since there is a three foot law involved... then the cop only needed that to arrest the driver.

But when there is no such law... then there is no "standard." Sorry, you cannot just make one up because you think it should exist.
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Originally Posted by kickstart
Yes, its hard to do nothing, I failed just a couple of days ago. Those who think the cyclist in the OP was free of culpability are just kidding themselves, or choosing to be willfully ignorant.
Exercising free speech to inform dangerous people that they are being dangerous invokes culpability?

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Interesting... as I read back in this thread, in just the last couple of pages... I see what seems like escalating anger from one poster to another... and yet, no bird flipping was done, no close passes... just escalation of anger.

Imagine how this might happen in real face to face life.
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Originally Posted by genec
Uh, your story is 4 times removed. My story is it was my girlfriend. Not a friend of a friend of... BS.

My story was sarcasm.


But that's OK... if you think it never happens, just keep on.
I do and have done for decades. In fact, most of the time I flip off motorists because they are endangering other people. For example, if a motorist buzzes a ped in a crosswalk my instinctual reaction is to flip them off (often 2x). Threatening people with harm deserves a scolding and the finger is hardly even that...but it's better than nothing.
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Originally Posted by genec
Interesting... as I read back in this thread, in just the last couple of pages... I see what seems like escalating anger from one poster to another... and yet, no bird flipping was done, no close passes... just escalation of anger.
Imagine how this might happen in real face to face life.

Au contraire. I am not asking anyone to do anything they do not feel comfortable doing but I find the idea that motorized couch potatoes would harm me for flipping the bird to be amusing. 95% of the time they flee the traffic statute violation "finger of shame" as fast as they can.
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
My story was sarcasm.




I do and have done for decades. In fact, most of the time I flip off motorists because they are endangering other people. For example, if a motorist buzzes a ped in a crosswalk my instinctual reaction is to flip them off (often 2x). Threatening people with harm deserves a scolding and the finger is hardly even that...but it's better than nothing.
Oh, PDX... got it... motorists there think cyclists own the road... or that you are going to go all Portlandia on them. Your gesture might get you in trouble elsewhere... unless you happen to be 6'4" and 250+ lbs...

BTW I do tend to agree with you... I just think better of "expressing my opinion" from atop a slow light ride. About all I ever do is the slow head shake as I go by.
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
Au contraire. I am not asking anyone to do anything they do not feel comfortable doing but I find the idea that motorized couch potatoes would harm me for flipping the bird to be amusing. 95% of the time they flee the traffic statute violation "finger of shame" as fast as they can.
BTW I am not just addressing you... but everyone that is getting heated in these last few pages... thus showing a similar loss of personal constraint.

95% eh... heck, all it takes is a 1% response by someone in a "heavy faster vehicle." I've had people stop, and shout at me... but it never went beyond that for me. It is somewhat ironic that they feel the need to even do that.
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Originally Posted by genec
Oh, PDX... got it... motorists there think cyclists own the road...

As if.

Portland bicyclist photographed throwing bike lock at motorist during road-rage incident | OregonLive.com
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
Exercising free speech to inform dangerous people that they are being dangerous invokes culpability?

I know you're smarter than that, you know its possible to provoke someone into a confrontation, and you know Portland isn't representative of all locations.
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Originally Posted by kickstart
I know you're smarter than that, you know its possible to provoke someone into a confrontation, and you know Portland isn't representative of all locations.
I lived in seattle for ten years prior to moving to portland 15 years ago. Just saying...
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Is a girl responsible for her own sexual assault because she provoked it by wearing a low neck sweater?
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Originally Posted by genec
I've had people stop, and shout at me... but it never went beyond that for me. It is somewhat ironic that they feel the need to even do that.

I disengage when that happens. My whole point in flipping the bird is to let them know that they screwed up, not insult them.
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
I disengage when that happens. My whole point in flipping the bird is to let them know that they screwed up, not insult them.
Flipping the bird is an "F you" gesture, that's an insult. Do you say "F you" to friends/coworkers/family who make a mistake and don't realize they screwed up?
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Originally Posted by genec
No, of course not... (hence the reason I specified over and over again "technically." But apparently you don't read well)
I understood what you wrote. It's wrong in a basic way.

The whole "technically, it's safe if there happens to be no contact" is just wrong. It's actually kind of crazy.

By your bizarro logic, driving drunk is safe as long as you don't hit anything.

In fact, technically, drunk driving is not safe because it increases the risk/probabilty of an accident occurring.

The purpose of talking about what is "safe" is to prevent bad outcomes. You weirdly keep claiming that one can only determine what is safe after the fact. Which is silly and useless.

Originally Posted by genec
But the law does. If there is no specified distance, and the cyclist wasn't harmed... then no jury would EVER find the motorist guilty of unsafe passing.
And, that does not mean the pass was safe. It's silly to keep claiming that it does.

According to you, in every place that has a "three foot" law, the safe distance is three feet but everywhere else, it's any distance that happens to not be a collision.

Originally Posted by genec
Since there is a three foot law involved... then the cop only needed that to arrest the driver.
The assault is a better reason.

Originally Posted by genec
But when there is no such law... then there is no "standard." Sorry, you cannot just make one up because you think it should exist.


It appears that every discussion of what is a specific safe distance is at least three feet. It's either no standard or that one.

If the standard of safety is to wear a helmet. That doesn't mean that standard doesn't exist if you don't wear a helmet. The safety standard of helmets doesn't need a law requiring them to exist as a standard.

You are saying it's fine for drivers to get as close as they want as long as they don't hit them.

Truly bizarre.


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Old 05-15-15, 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by RR3
You are a libelous idiot to suggest that I have committed any crime or will before a grand jury.
You seem very quick to be angry about stuff.
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Originally Posted by degnaw
who make a mistake
Forgetting to take the garbage out is a trivial mistake. Almost hitting and possibly killing a pedestrian is a very serious mistake.


Flipping the bird is an "F you" gesture, that's an insult.
The finger is a mild insult and its one that my family and friends use fairly often. I think the outrage over receiving the finger is often just anti-cyclist butthurt (e.g. how dare that pedestrian/cyclist who is on my road and in my way flip me off for almost hitting them).
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
My whole point in flipping the bird is to let them know that they screwed up, not insult them.
This is not "reality based".

Your private definiton of what you mean by doing it doesn't change the near universal understanding of it as an insult.

Do you call cats "dogs" and expect people to understand what you mean?

Weird.
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
I lived in seattle for ten years prior to moving to portland 15 years ago. Just saying...
Well Seattle ain't exactly a real temperamental city either. Most of the east coast, and old south is another story.
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Originally Posted by njkayaker
It appears that every discussion of what is a specific safe distance is at least three feet. It's either no standard or that one.
I would like to mention, though, that California law specifically allows motorists to pass closer than three feet if the motorist is going a "reasonable" speed.

https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/dmv/de...11/c3/a3/21760
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Originally Posted by spare_wheel
The finger is a mild insult and its one that my family and friends use fairly often.
You go ahead and try that out at a construction site, or truck stop were nobody knows you........
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Originally Posted by degnaw
I would like to mention, though, that California law specifically allows motorists to pass closer than three feet if the motorist is going a "reasonable" speed.

https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/dmv/de...11/c3/a3/21760
Interesting!

It's noted as an exception. It doesn't invalidate my point.
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Originally Posted by Dave Cutter
Yeah..... thing is.... fighting is a verb.... and confrontation is a noun.
Grammatically you are somewhat incorrect. "Fighting" could be a gerund. A gerund is a noun made from a verb by adding "-ing." An example is "Pardon me for interrupting all the A&S fighting." where "fighting" is the object of the sentence. "Interrupting" is not a gerund, though it ends in "-ing". It is a present participle, i.e. a verb.

You may now return to your confrontation.
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