Unsolicited advice
#1
Guest
Posts: n/a
Mentioned: Post(s)
Tagged: Thread(s)
Quoted: Post(s)
Unsolicited advice
One recent morning I was northbound on Shoreline from the 101 overpass (here). I was in the rightmost general-use lane, gradually overtaking a person riding a mountain bike in the bike lane.
The light at Pear Ave. was red, with two cars stopped in each lane. The second (rearmost) car in the right lane had its right turn signal on.
When the light turned green, the first car accelerated straight through. The second car accelerated and moved toward the curb, across the (now dashed) bike lane stripe.
As the bike rider came within one car length (still in the bike lane, never breaking cadence), the car driver saw him and suddenly jerked to the left, out of the bike lane.
The car stopped in the crosswalk (right turn signal still blinking) while the bike passed to its right and continued straight through the intersection.
I passed straight through the intersection in the middle of the lane the car had been in, as the car accelerated around the corner.
When I overtook the bicycle rider 100 feet beyond the intersection I soft-pedaled to match his pace and said
Is there an effective way to handle this sort of situation? Should I have persisted in the contact, and talked him through the principles of destination vs. speed positioning (both of which he violated)? Should I have identified myself as a credentialed expert in traffic cycling? Or is unsolicited advice assumed to be never welcome?
(Note I'm careful here about attributing action vs. intent to cars vs. drivers, but I intentionally used sloppy vernacular in an attempt to make contact with the bicycle rider.)
The light at Pear Ave. was red, with two cars stopped in each lane. The second (rearmost) car in the right lane had its right turn signal on.
When the light turned green, the first car accelerated straight through. The second car accelerated and moved toward the curb, across the (now dashed) bike lane stripe.
As the bike rider came within one car length (still in the bike lane, never breaking cadence), the car driver saw him and suddenly jerked to the left, out of the bike lane.
The car stopped in the crosswalk (right turn signal still blinking) while the bike passed to its right and continued straight through the intersection.
I passed straight through the intersection in the middle of the lane the car had been in, as the car accelerated around the corner.
When I overtook the bicycle rider 100 feet beyond the intersection I soft-pedaled to match his pace and said
me: Boy you got lucky, huh?
him: huh?
me: Good thing that silver car saw you on his right, he almost hit you. Maybe you should have gone around him on his left like I did?
him: Go fork() yourself. [or something like that, maybe he wasn't a Unix geek]
Sensing this wasn't a Teachable Moment regarding lane positioning and sneaking up on the right, I accelerated and rode on to the office.him: huh?
me: Good thing that silver car saw you on his right, he almost hit you. Maybe you should have gone around him on his left like I did?
him: Go fork() yourself. [or something like that, maybe he wasn't a Unix geek]
Is there an effective way to handle this sort of situation? Should I have persisted in the contact, and talked him through the principles of destination vs. speed positioning (both of which he violated)? Should I have identified myself as a credentialed expert in traffic cycling? Or is unsolicited advice assumed to be never welcome?
(Note I'm careful here about attributing action vs. intent to cars vs. drivers, but I intentionally used sloppy vernacular in an attempt to make contact with the bicycle rider.)
#2
Senior Member
I would have left out: "...like I did." Comes across as snobbish. And IDing yourself as some credentialed person wouldn't have gone over well either.
But, hey, he was taking his own life in his hands. I'm sure that the driver saw you doing the correct thing and was appreciative as well as knowing that you understood as she did: the guy was a self-focused accident waiting to happen.
But, hey, he was taking his own life in his hands. I'm sure that the driver saw you doing the correct thing and was appreciative as well as knowing that you understood as she did: the guy was a self-focused accident waiting to happen.
#3
Dominatrikes
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Still in Santa Barbara
Posts: 4,920
Bikes: Catrike Pocket, Lightning Thunderbold recumbent, Trek 3000 MTB.
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
That other cyclist almost fork()ed his own self. Maybe someday he'll learn, but it's likely that before that happens he'll either
a) finally save up enough for that 1994 Nissan Sentra he's been wanting and give up cycling for good, or
b) ride his bike up to his SUV, put the bike in the back and go home
Other than that, there's not a whole lot you can do unless you are a friend of his.
a) finally save up enough for that 1994 Nissan Sentra he's been wanting and give up cycling for good, or
b) ride his bike up to his SUV, put the bike in the back and go home
Other than that, there's not a whole lot you can do unless you are a friend of his.
#4
Been Around Awhile
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Burlington Iowa
Posts: 29,973
Bikes: Vaterland and Ragazzi
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 12 Post(s)
Liked 1,536 Times
in
1,045 Posts
Originally Posted by bobsut
Note I'm careful here about attributing action vs. intent to cars vs. drivers, but I intentionally used sloppy vernacular in an attempt to make contact with the bicycle rider.
#5
Striving for Fredness
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: West Michigan
Posts: 1,190
Bikes: Old Giant Rincon
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
Originally Posted by I-Like-To-Bike
Don't worry about it. Only "credentialed experts in traffic cycling" fret about this form of "sloppy vernacular" or ever make an issue of it.
#6
Two H's!!! TWO!!!!!
As a rule, unsolicited advice is not appreciated. I do not appreciate it (told it to more than one helmet nazi on the street to stuff it up his gazoo) and don't dispense any. "Don't tell me what to do, and I won't tell you where to go" sort of thing. If people want to get right-hooked, who am I to stop them?
#7
Faster but still slow
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Jersey
Posts: 5,978
Bikes: Trek 830 circa 1993 and a Fuji WSD Finest 1.0 2006
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 2 Times
in
2 Posts
The problem in this situation is that there is a bright white colored dashed line with the picture of a bike on it, saying he was supposed to be there regardless of your credentials. I don't disagree that bike lanes are stupid and sometimes plain dangerous, just that people think that is where they are supposed to be when riding a bike.
#8
Guest
Posts: n/a
Mentioned: Post(s)
Tagged: Thread(s)
Quoted: Post(s)
Originally Posted by slowandsteady
The problem in this situation is that there is a bright white colored dashed line with the picture of a bike on it, saying he was supposed to be there regardless of your credentials. I don't disagree that bike lanes are stupid and sometimes plain dangerous, just that people think that is where they are supposed to be when riding a bike.
I'm not such a jerk as to wave around the credentials I've earned in any of a variety of disciplines (professional or fun), except when someone needs to read my resume, or at the start of a formal instructional situation. I just mentioned that as an example of something that probably wouldn't be useful in situations like this. I intended the thread (note the subject) to focus on the matter of unsolicited advice.
#9
Banned.
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: San Diego
Posts: 13,075
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
Unsolicited advice rarely works. When offered in a forum like this one, perhaps someone else will pay heed to it. But the one to whom it is directed, whether here or out on the road? Probably a lost cause. Best to just stick to trying to teach by example.
#10
Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Canby, Oregon
Posts: 189
Bikes: Gary Fischer mtb, Specialized Allez, Cannondale Jekyl, Trek 8700, Motobecane Sprint (just ordered)
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
I don't see a problem with unsolicited advice, although how it is delivered can make a difference. He may have put up a front of he didn't care (male ego) but will try what you suggested at the next intersection. It never hurts to offer up information.
#11
No Rocket Surgeon
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Corona and S. El Monte, CA
Posts: 1,648
Bikes: Cannondale D600, Dahon Speed T7
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 6 Times
in
1 Post
In dealing with strangers, I tend to give only solicited advice now.
__________________
Fewer Cars, more handlebars!
Fewer Cars, more handlebars!
#12
Been Around Awhile
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Burlington Iowa
Posts: 29,973
Bikes: Vaterland and Ragazzi
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 12 Post(s)
Liked 1,536 Times
in
1,045 Posts
Originally Posted by bobsut
I I intended the thread (note the subject) to focus on the matter of unsolicited advice.
#13
"Per Ardua ad Surly"
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Kitchener, Ontario
Posts: 1,416
Bikes: Bianchi Specialissima, Mongoose Hilltopper ATB, Surly Cross-Check, Norco City Glide
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
The only time I offered unsoliticed advice to a cyclist was to one I almost killed while driving my car. I was making a left hand turn at night just as a weasel on a bike wearing dark clothes no lights and no reflectors whizzed right across my bows. I got the typical 'f--- you' and left it at that. I figure someone will eventually give them their Darwin Award. Not much point to doing it really....
#14
Fattest Thin Man
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Directly above the center of the earth
Posts: 2,648
Bikes: Miyata 610, Vinco V, Rocky Mountain Element
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 4 Times
in
1 Post
Originally Posted by Helmet Head
Unsolicited advice rarely works. When offered in a forum like this one, perhaps someone else will pay heed to it. But the one to whom it is directed, whether here or out on the road? Probably a lost cause. Best to just stick to trying to teach by example.
Az
#15
Sumanitu taka owaci
Join Date: Mar 2001
Posts: 8,945
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 1 Time
in
1 Post
Originally Posted by bobsut
When I overtook the bicycle rider 100 feet beyond the intersection I soft-pedaled to match his pace and said
me: Boy you got lucky, huh?
him: huh?
me: Good thing that silver car saw you on his right, he almost hit you. Maybe you should have gone around him on his left like I did?
him: Go fork() yourself. [or something like that, maybe he wasn't a Unix geek]
Sensing this wasn't a Teachable Moment regarding lane positioning and sneaking up on the right, I accelerated and rode on to the office.him: huh?
me: Good thing that silver car saw you on his right, he almost hit you. Maybe you should have gone around him on his left like I did?
him: Go fork() yourself. [or something like that, maybe he wasn't a Unix geek]
__________________
No worries
No worries
#16
Sumanitu taka owaci
Join Date: Mar 2001
Posts: 8,945
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 1 Time
in
1 Post
Originally Posted by I-Like-To-Bike
Don't worry about it. Only "credentialed experts in traffic cycling" fret about this form of "sloppy vernacular" or ever make an issue of it.
__________________
No worries
No worries
#17
Been Around Awhile
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Burlington Iowa
Posts: 29,973
Bikes: Vaterland and Ragazzi
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 12 Post(s)
Liked 1,536 Times
in
1,045 Posts
Originally Posted by LittleBigMan
Since advice was solicited concerning unsolicited advice, is this solicited, or unsolicited advice?
Reason: Because just about everybody already knows how welcome unsolicited advice is from strangers; especially "advice" that criticizes current actions/behavior.
#18
Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Florida
Posts: 244
Bikes: RANS Dynamik
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
Originally Posted by Helmet Head
Unsolicited advice rarely works.
__________________
Become a Registered Member | Community Guidelines
-
My Bikes: RANS Dynamic - RANS Cruz - RANS Fusion - Downtube IXNS
...............Read two Crank Forwrd Reviews!
Become a Registered Member | Community Guidelines
-
My Bikes: RANS Dynamic - RANS Cruz - RANS Fusion - Downtube IXNS
...............Read two Crank Forwrd Reviews!
#19
Banned.
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: San Diego
Posts: 13,075
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
Originally Posted by I_Bike
+1. I always figure Darwin will eventually "advise" 'em...
#20
Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: Florida
Posts: 244
Bikes: RANS Dynamik
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times
in
0 Posts
Originally Posted by Helmet Head
Of course, education is preferable to learning "as you do it" that gets you killed...
__________________
Become a Registered Member | Community Guidelines
-
My Bikes: RANS Dynamic - RANS Cruz - RANS Fusion - Downtube IXNS
...............Read two Crank Forwrd Reviews!
Become a Registered Member | Community Guidelines
-
My Bikes: RANS Dynamic - RANS Cruz - RANS Fusion - Downtube IXNS
...............Read two Crank Forwrd Reviews!