General Cycling Discussion - San Diego- Need help from those there

Hey, Who all is from San Diego and the area I need some help

I for one. There are others. I live about 45 miles norht east of San Diego.. Let my know, anything I can do..

I put this in General Discussions cuz well it gets the most traffic... but has nothign to do with biking.. please moderators don't move this I need all the help I can get.

As many of you know I've been dating my gf for about a year, we just broke up because I got jealous and messed things up. Basically made her lose all confidence in what we had.

So she's leaving late January for California, San Diego to be exact. She won't be settled down enough to pull this for valentines day, so I'm hoping to do it for what would of been our anniversay March 4th.

I hope to some how make plans to fly out there the day before, find a place to stay (friends or hotel) and then pick up flowers and show up at her house the next day... to make amends.

I can make this a long story. I'll try not to though, we both love each other very much and between me messing up last week, and her not knowing if she can deal with a long distance relationship. I need to build her trust/confidence in me back up..

All the help I can get is needed!! I'm desperate!! :( And in love..

Arsbars.. Sorry for bad fortune. Wish you best of luck in resolving the problem... Hope your plan is successful..
Been there about 15 years ago, called divorce.. I was pretty messed up. Life seemed pretty tough.. Hope in my case was pretty slim.. We just did not grow together, but apart.
I suggest, at least in my case- to get over that desperate feeling find out what you like to do and do it.. What, as they say- find yourself.. Maybe in our cases, we all have our cycling as a release from our problems..
At the time, it was running for me.. Would not have gotten out of my misery, if not for that and scuba diving.. Also, while doing what you like- gives you chance to think about how to cope with the difficulty and how to handle it.. It worked for me..

Arsbars: Your plan to go to San Diego just might work. 25 years ago, I met a wonderful woman in the St. Louis airport. After spending only 15 minutes with her before we left on separate flights, I knew she was the woman I wanted to marry. I didn't see her again for about six months, but we wrote to each other almost every day. I tried to convince her to move to San Diego (she was a nurse practitioner, with portable job skills), but she balked. Then I told her I was going to fly from San Diego (where I lived) to Kentucky (where she lived) and camp out on her front proch until she agreed to move to California. I also sent flowers to her mother. That did it! One month later, she moved to California, got a job at U. of California and got an apartment one block from mine. A year later, we were married. We're going on 22 years now. This has been the best thing that ever happened to me. You'll like San Diego. What a great city!