Foo - girl from summer romance came over - feedback appreciated

Guess what. R, the summer romance who had a boyfriend (environmental girl that I posted about a while ago), came over this morning. I was late to work strangely as I am usually gone by this time. Someone knocked on the door at 9am. I said 'who is it'?

I then opened the door and lo and behold it was R! She looked REALLY good too. Very happy and carefree. She was there to return a book that I lent to her a while ago and she had also made me a cd with a note. She said ‘ I did not think you would be here, I just wanted to leave the book here’. *Seems dubious to me because then why would she have knocked.

I was really excited to see her. You know when you talk and act really fast. She asked how I was and I said well and did a salsa shimmy saying that I am loving salsa :)

I then said how about a valentines day hug. She seemed apprehensive and did not give herself fully to the hug. So I said see you later. I was really excited smiling and moving fast the whole time.

What does her visit mean if anything? I guess I want to read into it as I want to think there is something there. Alas her behaviour and decisions have shown that she is probably not the girl for me but I thought we had many a fun time left at least.

The note?

Something like this:

Thanks for the book. I made you a cd and I hope that you like it. All the best in Holland if you are leaving soon.

R

** she thought I was moving to Holland which was a strong possibility at the time. Not right now though as I rejected the job.

* What do you think I do if anything? I will probably email her because I like her.

*** I know this may seem silly guys but posting helps me. I see the answer stare back at me then get your viewpoints. A different perspective than my emotionally clouded mind i guess.

I don't know. Maybe she was just returning a book. Maybe she is trying to remain friends. The awkward hug sounds like it is a little standoffish. Go slow and see what happens.

mmkay. You gave her a key. Took it back. She comes by. Knocks. You wonder why. She wanted to see if you were there before using the copy of your key to let herself in. :rolleyes:

You had a chance earlier to "show your interest," so to speak. Did not do so.

Do not email. Forget her. She is gone. Go to your salsa classes, and look for some interesting women there. You might also try some casual group rides. :)

<settlin' back with a few Stellas, and popcorn, watchin' with Vega interest>

*sip*

Brrrp! 'Scuse me.

*munch,munch*

doesn't seem like there's something there.

send her an email and thank her for the CD, and mention that the job in holland fell through, don't leave it open like you're expecting a response. DO NOT ASK HER OUT ON A DATE. if she emails you back then there might be something there, otherwise she probably just wanted to return the book with no ulterior motive.

if you meet again, try not to talk fast, try to speak at a normal tone and speed, like you're old friends.

edit: i don't know the history, so take my advice with a grain of salt

Here we go again. We'll be right back with another chapter of "As the Bimbos Turn" after this message from our sponsor, Acme Condoms - so we're cheap, it's not like you're ever gonna actually use one.

Here we go again. We'll be right back with another chapter of "As the Bimbos Turn" after this message from our sponsor, Acme Condoms - so we're cheap, it's not like you're ever gonna actually use one.
:roflmao:

:eek: I'm sorry. That's so not Vega. It's the Stella(s). :o

The answer is in the cd. What songs are on it?

The answer is in the cd. What songs are on it?

Can you play a CD backwards?

Can you play a CD backwards?
Ya just have to flip it.

She wants you, dude. Get some.

mmkay. You gave her a key. Took it back. She comes by. Knocks. You wonder why. She wanted to see if you were there before using the copy of your key to let herself in. :rolleyes:

You had a chance earlier to "show your interest," so to speak. Did not do so.

Do not email. Forget her. She is gone. Go to your salsa classes, and look for some interesting women there. You might also try some casual group rides. :)

<settlin' back with a few Stellas, and popcorn, watchin' with Vega interest>

*sip*

Brrrp! 'Scuse me.

*munch,munch*


LOL, that was the backpacker who is LONG gone. This is the girl I actually liked over SUmmer and slept with a lot over 2 weeks. THen found she had a bf who was away at the time. *groan

The answer is in the cd. What songs are on it?


Have not listened yet. It is at home. I imagine Salsa and coldplay style. Salsa because she knows I am into it and so is she. Coldplay because she brought over her music when I made her dinner once and she some great stuff like coldplay etc.

Here we go again. We'll be right back with another chapter of "As the Bimbos Turn" after this message from our sponsor, Acme Condoms - so we're cheap, it's not like you're ever gonna actually use one.

lol - I hate condoms. Another reason why I do not sleep around.

so she cheated on her boyfriend with you?

DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER!

doesn't seem like there's something there.

send her an email and thank her for the CD, and mention that the job in holland fell through, don't leave it open like you're expecting a response. DO NOT ASK HER OUT ON A DATE. if she emails you back then there might be something there, otherwise she probably just wanted to return the book with no ulterior motive.

if you meet again, try not to talk fast, try to speak at a normal tone and speed, like you're old friends.

edit: i don't know the history, so take my advice with a grain of salt

Great suggestion! Brilliant. Many thanks

LOL, that was the backpacker who is LONG gone. This is the girl I actually liked over SUmmer and slept with a lot over 2 weeks. THen found she had a bf who was away at the time. *groan
OMG! I can't keep up without a ****in' scorecard! :eek:

<settlin' back, munchin' popcorn, and sippin' Jack -- yeah, this calls for th' big guns>

she is an attention ***** and she wanted your attention on valentines day.

she is an attention ***** and she wanted your attention on valentines day.





on the money!!!

Thanks everyone :)

lol - I hate condoms. Another reason why I do not sleep around.

Dude!! If you are sleeping with a girl that is cheating on her boyfriend YOU ARE SLEEPING AROUND. I realize you did not know it at the time, but you know it now. You are still interested? WTF?? Run like
h3ll kid.

she went to your house on valentine's day.
yep, she likes you.:)

If there can be intimate physical contact there can be intimate conversation. I have a fault where I wear my emotions on my sleeve. If I am interested in a girl I tell he so. Yeah, I have some girls tell me they didn't reciprocate. But the ones that did reciprocate gave it %100 because we were "going down the same road together." Either way, I know where I stand with someone either to my delight or to my disappointment.

Here we go again. We'll be right back with another chapter of "As the Bimbos Turn" after this message from our sponsor, Acme Condoms - so we're cheap, it's not like you're ever gonna actually use one.

+1

Ya just have to flip it.

Actually, R.E.M. did release a collectors CD a few years ago that had a secret song recorded on top of the CD that could be played by flipping it.

*Now, Your Geek Music advisor is signing off *

having played this game over and over, thankfully not in over two years, i can tell you what to do.


email her in a month after listening to the cd. the email should simply read this;

thanks for the cd i liked it alot. im free this coming weekend if you want to go get dinner or a drink.



based on response, go from there.

Be blunt and just ask her what she wants. If she's into you, she'll tell you.

Since nobody has made this obligatory response yet...

HIT IT!

i like big butts and i can not lie*

Guess what. R, the summer romance who had a boyfriend (environmental girl that I posted about a while ago), came over this morning.

Aww, come on man, you gotta give us time to guess first! :p

lol - I hate condoms. Another reason why I do not sleep around.

:lol: Oh it's you again..... dude I somehow think your refusal to wear a cap is not the only reason for your lack of sleeping around. You kiss and tell too much, despite it's entertainment value. If you are out and about... wear your cap..... period.

I then said how about a valentines day hug. She seemed apprehensive and did not give herself fully to the hug. So I said see you later. I was really excited smiling and moving fast the whole time.
She's not interested...just wanted to give you the book back to make sure there was no "tie" back between you two. The weak hug was a big enough sign......give it up. She's not interested. Don't make a fool (or more of a fool) of yourself.

For pete's sake dude......another chick thread?

At this point it is I that is confused....are you trying to hit it, or are they trying to hit it....and where is the giant miscommunication going on?

Not trying to be a jackass, but seriously, these threads are like some form of sexual madlibs.

edit: and like it or not, don't be a fool, vulcanize your tool.

F'it. It's not that complicated. If you want to ask her out then ask her out and see what she says. Don't worry about if she's hinting at this or that. Worry about what you want and then go for what you want.

Hot Chicks Dig Me.....
part seven

Since nobody has made this obligatory response yet...

HIT IT!

Ok honestly i'm going to have to be a karma **** +1.

Since nobody has made this obligatory response yet...

HIT IT!Yeah, she was just BEGGING for it!!! You gotta work on that follow-through...

I have come to the conclusion that you're just trolling, and you don't really know any 'girls' besides your fist.

+1 All these girls showin' up to his door, we're yellin' at him from the peanut gallery for him to IN THE NAME OF CHUCK, HIT IT!! HIT IT AND STOP WHINING!! HIT IT, WILL YOU?!
:p

She's not interested...just wanted to give you the book back to make sure there was no "tie" back between you two. The weak hug was a big enough sign......give it up. She's not interested. Don't make a fool (or more of a fool) of yourself.

+1 Sorry dude... King termite is right... Just be glad you got your book back. Oh yeah, change your locks if she still has the keys.

lol - thanks guys.

All the threads may sound silly, and they are. If you have not realised, I am clueless with women although am improving dramatically. Ever since my mega relationship phases of my life ended, I have been at a loss with girls. The ones I do not like, like me. The ones I like have boyfriends or are not interested.

Also, my patience is low. If a girl that I like, likes me then I just want to rush into it. I think this is because I still crave the past intimacy from my previous relationships. Having gone about 7 years in relationships with only minor gaps, this has been my longest time ever single (about a year and 4 months :) ).

I love parts of it but would be lying if I did not say I missed the intimacy of a relationship too.

* oh, as for this girl. One cruel woman :) She made me a cd of the songs we were very passionate too. Kind soul - who would do that :) :) :) *I just laughed and shook my head

One word: hookers!

Even better idea... turn 'em into hookers!!!

Ahhh...Foo.....

Where you can always rely on Yendor28 to post a thoroughly entertaining "Does this hot chick dig me?" thread, and Danno and Chipcom to add absolutely priceless replies to the said threads. This place is even better than the best sitcoms at times. I love it. Now pass me the popcorn and a Stella Vega!!

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"sure women are beautiful, but you have to whirl and whirl and whirl like a handkerchief in the wind"

-jack kerouac

wasn't Jack gay???

edit: not that there is anything wrong with that, you know

If he was I think it was because he got tired of .."whirling and whirling and whirling like a handkerchief in the wind" :lol:

jack wasn't gay, he was more asexual. Other than his time at Columbia he always lived with his mother

as for the kid and the chick, she wanted it but he killed it with that "can I have a hug" line. Stop acting all giddy like a crazed hillbilly that just stumbled upon a secret meth lab and stop treating girls like lonely beings that are dying for your love and affections and you'll be amazed at how much action you can get (well maybe not you, more "you" in the collective sense).

And don’t be an idiot, a condom beats any of the alternatives. There is a club where going bare is acceptable, it’s called monogamy. Week long hook ups with some girl who has a boyfriend doesn’t quite satisfy the entry fee to that club.

Actually, entry into the club still requires "papers"... you can be monogamous or serially monogamous and still be deadly... I don't go bare until they prove they're D&D...

+1, I was going to say "marriage", but didn't want to exclude those who can't join that club