BMX - So the saga continues...

Yeah, I know I'm going to take a lot of heat for this one, but honestly, I don't give a ****. I'm so messed up right now. Most of you are already guessing the reason, and most of you are probably right. Tonight I just found out that my girl was secretly talking to some big druggy at another school who was sweet-talking her who she now likes a bit. The kid is a total dick and abuses women, and she knows that, but doesn't care. She has been doing all of this behind my back and finally told me tonight. I am so hurt right now and really don't know what to do. I'm lost.

slap a **

i told you. she's trouble.
*****es are wack.


anways, heres what you do. kill her. start doing drugs with the duggie. waste your life away.
over some wack as *****.

but SRSLY.
i feel like i warned you about such things.

People did. But I never would have expected this... never.

im telling you.
break up with her. now.
i mean, she's a dumb **. it always seems like hs'es putting you through **** and you only do good for her.

and after you breka up with her exert self control and dotn take her back.

I just can't though. I love her. "Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"

"love is wack"

you dont love her.
your just horny.

beside, if you "love her" anything we say wont make a diference, your mind is already made up.

No, I'm not horny because I'm not about that at all and it was never really a part of our relationship. You'd be surprised how little we did in 10 months.

Gunz, you are 15, I know it feels like she is the one but you are going to have to break it off and get on with life. It's obvious you are not going to stay with you forever, so why have her hold you back? This is a learning experience for you.

So slap that ** to the curb and step on her throat. Or jerk off in her eye.

"Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"

"love is wack"nt

Perfect. New sig time.

That sucks. She must be one of those girls that likes to be abused and treated like a ***** by some drug dealer. You can do better, if that's the case.

Oh man, it doesn't fit in the sig box :(

But like, that's not her at all. She's one of the quiet, shy, and innocent type.

If this is her game, she's doin' you a favor. Be glad you're finding out what she's about.

She's a loser.

Man don't be gay. You're 15, don't waste your high school years stuck on one stupid chick. You have to live, and make the best of your highschool years cause they don't last long and if you waste it all stuck on one stupid ***** you're gonna regret it. You have to meet girls, and date girls and then eventually in your last year of school, or after school you will decide you want to settle down and get into something long term. But man high school is full of chicks, so make the best of it. Besides that chick you got isn't exactly hot ****. You can do better, go find yourself a ****en babe.

Eh, I know some of what you guys say is absolutely true... but I don't want to give up yet.

Eh, I know some of what you guys say is absolutely true... but I don't want to give up yet.

Well then enjoy.

What I just told you is all true, and it's exactly the advice you need to hear, and listen to right now. You only live once man.

I'm not certain I should step in here, but, I think I would try to back away from the situation. If she has any feelings for you, she'll realise eventually that you're the right choice.

Me, personally, I would have nothing to do with someone who's likely to be incarcerated in a few years, but some people are drawn to that for some odd reason.

All this is much easier said than done.

East Hill

Fuzzy could'nt be more right. If I knew at your age what I now know. I think every single person on these forums has said "She's not like that.....What we have is so diffrent.....You just dont understand how we relate" etc. etc. in the end it's all just straight up nieavity (sp?). You live and you learn. Being rejected sucks. Shoot man, you live in SMITHTOWN your lucky!! I grew up in Centereach and Smithtown was well know for the copious amounts of little hotties. Dont sweat one girl please, for me.

P.S. If your not horny, You need to go to the doctor cause that's just not normal at 15. Or any age past 8 for that matter....

EDIT** East, please pardon my male chauvinism. Hehe.

EDIT** East, please pardon my male chauvinism. Hehe.

It's ok, I know you guys are trying to help Gunz :( .

I just can't relate to someone who doesn't want to hang with a nice guy, instead of a jerk. I've known jerks, and I would just rather be with someone like my husband, you know? But that's a side effect of getting older--it really does tend to give you a perspective. Human nature being what it is, there's always the temptation to flirt with things that aren't necessarily good for us, and eventually both men and women come to the conclusion that someone who is kind and loving is where it's at. Good looks in women, and hair in men, go soon enough, and then you're left with the basic person...a good heart and kind soul go a long way.

Anyway, I am sorry to hear about your troubles.

East Hill

...a good heart and kind soul go a long way.
East Hill

and a good cook...both should be good cooks!


i like my food...


maybe I have a tapeworm :eek:

and a good cook...both should be good cooks!

Fortunately for me, my husband is an excellent cook. I handle the sweets, he handles the savoury. Works out quite nicely.

:)

East Hill

Dump her. Leave her hella in the cold. Make a hella scene. Seriously. Call her out and everything on it.

It'll make you feel better and other people will know what she did to you.

Thank you, East Hill. As for Mr. Harmer, Smithtown is not what it used to be.

Ok now it's time for a serious reply from my side of the computer screen.

If i were you...i would just let her go and eventually she'll realize what she lost. Don't really keep your doors open or like wait for her to come back, just try and move on. Maybe be single for a bit. After all you are what, 15, 16 ? We are young. We don't need all this relationship crap yet. We've got plenty of time, no need to grow up fast.

Now i don't mean go mingle with all the girls at your school but just be happy being single and being able to hangout with all your freinds that are girls and just have fun. As much as a girlfriend would be nice most relationships last like a month at our age. It's all stupid.

Just ride your bike, play baseball and be happy.

I'm not trying to live vicourisly (sp?) through this post or act like i know everything but that's just my view.

Thank you, East Hill. As for Mr. Harmer, Smithtown is not what it used to be.

Even still. I can assure you, My best friend lives in Nesconsett and I've picked his youngest sister up from school (Smithtown H.S.) and trust me you have better pickings there in than my area. Not that I check out 15yr. olds I'm just sayin is all. My little brother complains daily about the lack of ladies. HAHA.

As much as people tried to give me the advice I knew was right at the time; I still chose to do what I wanted. Its part of growing up, you make bad decisions and learn from them. If you followed everyone's advice you'd be a pretty boring person and will have learned nothing from life. I'm hoping for the best for you though.

beside, if you "love her" anything we say wont make a diference, your mind is already made up.

I don't want to give up yet.

told ya so

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Youre beggin me to go, youre makin me stay
Why do you hurt me so bad?
It would help me to know
Do I stand in your way, or am I the best thing youve had?
Believe me, believe me, I cant tell you why
But Im trapped by your love, and Im chained to your side

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Were losing control
Will you turn me away or touch me deep inside?
And before this gets old, will it still feel the same?
Theres no way this will die
But if we get much closer, I could lose control
And if your heart surrenders, youll need me to hold

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Yeah, I know I'm going to take a lot of heat for this one, but honestly, I don't give a ****. I'm so messed up right now. Most of you are already guessing the reason, and most of you are probably right. Tonight I just found out that my girl was secretly talking to some big druggy at another school who was sweet-talking her who she now likes a bit. The kid is a total dick and abuses women, and she knows that, but doesn't care. She has been doing all of this behind my back and finally told me tonight. I am so hurt right now and really don't know what to do. I'm lost.

you should start chillin' in foo.

Kinetik, thanks for the good advice as well.
Mude, you're just always right... I love you.
Rob, what school do you pick him up from? High School West or High School East?
Wonginator, I have too much to deal with here... otherwise I would.

Rob, what school do you pick him up from? High School West or High School East?


Haven't a clue. I picked up his little sister once at the beginning of the year, I diddnt even know there was two schools to choose from.

Does the school look pretty run down and have a lot of grass area? Or is the school decently nice?

So slap that ** to the curb and step on her throat. Or jerk off in her eye.
As much as i wanted to laugh at this, you are not helping our friend gunz.

you should start chillin' in foo.

He'd have to put up with Maximan.

East Hill

He'd have to put up with Maximan.

East Hill

He's a moderator, it might be a good thing.

He's a moderator, it might be a good thing.

You could be correct about that. I still can't believe the trash that comes out of that lad--like the thread about the poor dog. Sad, sad. Blame the dog for being a dog, don't bother to realise that the dog's doing what puppies do. No attempt to train the dog, it was just a toy to that family, not a living, breathing creature. Now it's just a nuisance, to be thrown away :mad: .

East Hill

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Youre beggin me to go, youre makin me stay
Why do you hurt me so bad?
It would help me to know
Do I stand in your way, or am I the best thing youve had?
Believe me, believe me, I cant tell you why
But Im trapped by your love, and Im chained to your side

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Were losing control
Will you turn me away or touch me deep inside?
And before this gets old, will it still feel the same?
Theres no way this will die
But if we get much closer, I could lose control
And if your heart surrenders, youll need me to hold

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
Pat Benatar...
brings back [bad] High School memories :rolleyes:

You could be correct about that. I still can't believe the trash that comes out of that lad--like the thread about the poor dog. Sad, sad. Blame the dog for being a dog, don't bother to realise that the dog's doing what puppies do. No attempt to train the dog, it was just a toy to that family, not a living, breathing creature. Now it's just a nuisance, to be thrown away :mad: .

East Hill
I didn't hear the story, but it sounds quite cruel.

http://www.bikeforums.net/showthread.php?t=293136

Read the other thread in my post there to get the full story.



How are you doing, Gunz? Better today?

East Hill

Wow, that really is terrible. If he ever came here, he'd probably get banned for the things he does. But, my main responsibility is here, as I'm sure there are a whole bunch of mods at Foo... or atleast I hope so.

Eh, I can't say I'm quite happy. It's really depressing just seeing her and not being able to hold her or anything and it really hurts- especially since I have lunch with her and have to sit next to her for 40 minutes straight (while she sits there and texts the guy that may replace me and talks about me while I'm right next to her). But, I guess I am a bit better than yesterday due to a lot of my friends' help. Most of her friends even talked to me about it and they told me how much she messed up and how she's not even a good girlfriend. I really have no idea what's going on. She never said that we are officially no longer together, but she's telling most of her friends that we are "on a break". A lot of people are super pissed at her and want to yell at her.

Wow, she sits there and text's that guy. Thats ****ed up

Yeah, I've realized that.
EDIT: Oh yeah, and that guy also happens to be one of my best friends (he is not the druggy mentioned in the first post, it's a different guy).

It takes time. If she's got a good heart she will eventually think about what she's done. If you have a good heart, you'll accept what's happened and go on. That may mean the two of you get back together, but it may not.

Try to remain clear headed. If you still think she's worth it, wait. Whatever you do, don't say bad things about her. Especially things that might ruin her reputation. If she keeps going down the path she appears to have chosen, she'll have only herself to blame.

East Hill

East Hill, I've realized all of that. I think she really is a good person and is worth waiting for... again. I don't say anything bad about her because I don't say anything bad about anyone. People that have heard the story are mad at her and that may ruin her reputation, but that's her own fault.

You are a very wise man, Gunz.

East Hill

He's a moderator, it might be a good thing.

wtf maximan's a mod?

You are a very wise man, Gunz.

East Hill
Thank you. :) I'm also known to be one of the nicest guys you will ever meet. I have a lot of patience and don't lose my temper too easily (some of the guys here are quite lucky). In ten months, I literally never yelled at her or said one mean thing to her. I'm just a nice guy. :p


wtf maximan's a mod?
No, but I am.

I don't really have any advice for you except move on. She obviously doesn't feel the same way about you and it's not worth it. I had a girlfriend who never seemed to find time for me and liked me less than I liked her. We broke up about year ago and she hasn't had a boyfriend since. I've had 3 girlfriends since her, so who's the winner there eh? Bottom line, accept it and move on, besides she may see sense and realise how much of an ass she is.

I don't want like a million girlfriends. I hate that. I want as few as possible because I hate the whole breaking up process and everything.

Meh whatever. I still think you should move on. As i said, she doesn't appreciate you as much as you do. Find someone who feels the same way about you, as you do with them