Foo - My freind, the dumbass

This guy just got out of deep poop (getting a girl pregnant, they're both only 12 years old) and after about 1.5 months of being grounded, today, we were going to have a sleepover. He asks for my phone to call his mom. I hear him dial then say "do you want to really bad word me?" on the phone.
Turns out that he called my ex gf, told her this (but she knew it was him, he's too stupid to be confused with anyone else) and her parents (which are HELLA overprotective over that spoiled girl) another really bad word him up GOOD :(

We was walkin our bikes back home and his mom stomps out of her brothers house.
Lets just leave it at this: he ain't gonna be ridin that bike again.

I feel sorry for this fool.

RANTY RANT RANT
FIXED IT :)

I did not understand a single word of what you just posted.

Tell your mommy to stop buying you mountain dew.

I did not understand a single word of what you just posted.I'm thinking that's for the best.

Mowntan Doo Good!!!

No! Too much caffeine and posts become unintelligible.

Max,

1. Why are kids who aren't even teenagers yet doing things that get them pregnant? Where are their parents??

2. Why are you up this late? Where are YOUR parents??

3. What does fvk mean? I'm thinking Fizik for some reason.

fvk means f**k

my parents are asleep

their parents are at home drinking coffee

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Me knifing my tyre made as much sense as your post.

You knifing your manhood doesn't make sense at all, cause there is no manhood to knife ;)

Max the best thing I can do is to remind you to look at how your friends are conducting themselves. Sure, things are fun FOR THE MOMENT but there are always consequences (good or bad) to everything you do. For every action, there is a reaction.

Look with the idea that anything you may do might have as an effect on others, or those who might be related to the situation. Be smart and guide yourself. You will make mistakes, but all in learning. But if you can, learn from others and watch from aside. Conduct yourself in a manner in which you can be proud of your decision making. :)

Cheese :)

Didn't understand anything that you just said Siu.

Believe it or not Max, Siu is right. Right now it seems like fun to act like a dufus all the time, and I say this with a huge load of irony, but really, one day you're going to wake up and have goals for yourself and try to do something with your life. Avoid the same mistakes your friends have made, and remember to wear you're helmet, and I will too. :)

Cheese :)

Didn't understand anything that you just said Siu.


Read it again slowly, sweetie. ;)

Too Many Big Words!!!!!

Read it again little Max.

I bet if you held your head under water for a REALLLY long time it would make perfect sense.

Also, I went mudding tonight and my tires liked it.

Cheese :)

Didn't understand anything that you just said Siu.
Max, I suggest you carefully read Siu's post until you understand it. Feel free to PM me if you want to discuss the post in order to hopefully better understand it.

I bet if you held your head under water for a REALLLY long time it would make perfect sense.

Also, I went mudding tonight and my tires liked it.

Cool! And it tracks straight too? :)

Here's my question. At this point what good is grounding going to do? :?

Max the best thing I can do is to remind you to look at how your friends are conducting themselves. Sure, things are fun FOR THE MOMENT but there are always consequences (good or bad) to everything you do. For every action, there is a reaction.

Look with the idea that anything you may do might have as an effect on others, or those who might be related to the situation. Be smart and guide yourself. You will make mistakes, but all in learning. But if you can, learn from others and watch from aside. Conduct yourself in a manner in which you can be proud of your decision making.

Cheese :)

Didn't understand anything that you just said Siu.
I think she's just saying that it's easy to lose perspective because of the influence of one's surroundings and peers. I understand it's very difficult to extricate oneself from a particular environment and judge it from a better perspective. When you are surrounded by other people who are immature, are of bad character, or do not provide a positive influence, it is deceptively easy to become a part of that.

I would guess her advice would be more appropriate for your jolly friend, but useful nonetheless.

As for you, it is important to take away the message that you can learn a lot from observing others and reflecting on their behaviour.

This wouldn't have happen if they would have had Karate in their lives.

Just sayin'.

Or Jeebus. Jest sayun.

This guy just got out of deep poop (getting a girl pregnant, they're both only 12 years old) and after about 1.5 months of being grounded, today, we were going to have a sleepover. He asks for my phone to call his mom. I hear him dial then say "do you want to really bad word me?" on the phone.
Turns out that he called my ex gf, told her this (but she knew it was him, he's too stupid to be confused with anyone else) and her parents (which are HELLA overprotective over that spoiled girl) another really bad word him up GOOD :(

We was walkin our bikes back home and his mom stomps out of her brothers house.
Lets just leave it at this: he ain't gonna be ridin that bike again.

I feel sorry for this fool.

RANTY RANT RANT
FIXED IT :)
Just how did he get out of 'deep poop' for getting a girl pregnant?

Turned her over?

buh dum bump...cheeeeeeee!!!!!!

Too Many Big Words!!!!!

Pratce makes perfect.

Basically, just think befroe acting. Yeah sex is fun stuff, but there are lots of things that can happen that a teenager should not have to deal with yet. It's pretty hard for a kid to raise another kid. Condoms break....remember that...that was a key point in many "oh s*** oh s***" moments that some of my friends had (I had my own, but that was from being even more stupid and doing it anyways despite not having any more with me...I deserved that scare).

Maybe a Babysitting sub-Forum to Foo would make sense. Siu could be moderator/babysitter.

Valiant effort Siu, too bad they don't require a license to drive on the internet.

I saw the title, with the spelling error no less, and one thought came to mind. Birds of a feather...

Why would you feel sorry for him and why is he your friend?

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Max is smart enuff to realize that his friend is stupid. Max will use condoms. Good boy Max. Keep it wrapped.

But Max is not smart enough to realize that his friend could get him in deep trouble - you don't have to do the crime to be caught up in the consequences.

drop this friend like a bad habit. he'll just drag you down.

But Max is not smart enough to realize that his friend could get him in deep trouble - you don't have to do the crime to be caught up in the consequences.

Actually, I'm more concerned about what kind of education he's receiving.

I mean, have you seen what passes for a complete sentence these days?

Seriously though...what the hell are 12 year olds doing having boyfriends/girlfriends?, much less having sex? 98% of them are not at the maturity level to properly handle that kind of relationship anyway (as in a bf/gf relationship...not a sexual one...KIDS are not ready for sex at age 12)...and the way that they DO handle that kind of relationship is usually modeled after the crap they see on tv and the example they get at home. Parents be damned, especially ones let pop culture and the kids peers raise them, and damn parents that have minimal involvement in their kids life (i.e not knowing their friends, not taking an interest in one of their interests, NOT equipping them with the decision making skills that will give them some understanding of common sense, NOT having some boundaries and rules at home so they will actually be equipped to move out of the house someday, etc,) . Actually, if this kid really is 12, he shouldn't be posting on the internet at 1am either. Where the hell are the parents? Ugh.

RANT OFF. :mad:

Once HS starts, he'll get all new friends. Or he'll be thrown in lockers alot.

Actually, I'm more concerned about what kind of education he's receiving.

I mean, have you seen what passes for a complete sentence these days?

Seriously though...what the hell are 12 year olds doing having boyfriends/girlfriends?, much less having sex? 98% of them are not at the maturity level to properly handle that kind of relationship anyway (as in a bf/gf relationship...not a sexual one...KIDS are not ready for sex at age 12)...and the way that they DO handle that kind of relationship is usually modeled after the crap they see on tv and the example they get at home. Parents be damned, especially ones let pop culture and the kids peers raise them, and damn parents that have minimal involvement in their kids life (i.e not knowing their friends, not taking an interest in one of their interests, NOT equipping them with the decision making skills that will give them some understanding of common sense, NOT having some boundaries and rules at home so they will actually be equipped to move out of the house someday, etc,) . Actually, if this kid really is 12, he shouldn't be posting on the internet at 1am either. Where the hell are the parents? Ugh.

RANT OFF. :mad:
Rant about kids all you want (and I agree with you), but all they're really doing is responding to the environment that we are all responsible for creating.

It's like English adults not having a clue how to drink, then getting all worked up because young people are binge drinking :rolleyes: What stupidity.

12 year old getting pregnant..wow. so many thoughts right now.
where the heck are the parents????????????????

12 year old getting pregnant..wow. so many thoughts right now.
where the heck are the parents????????????????

I know! WTH!

This guy just got out of deep poop (getting a girl pregnant, they're both only 12 years old) and after about 1.5 months of being grounded, today, we were going to have a sleepover. He asks for my phone to call his mom. I hear him dial then say "do you want to really bad word me?" on the phone.
Turns out that he called my ex gf, told her this (but she knew it was him, he's too stupid to be confused with anyone else) and her parents (which are HELLA overprotective over that spoiled girl) another really bad word him up GOOD :(

We was walkin our bikes back home and his mom stomps out of her brothers house.
Lets just leave it at this: he ain't gonna be ridin that bike again.

I feel sorry for this fool.

RANTY RANT RANT
FIXED IT :)


Is this another 'drunk' post?

Rant about kids all you want (and I agree with you), but all they're really doing is responding to the environment that we are all responsible for creating. Not to nit-pick or be argumentative...but...

1) I did not create, seek to create, or voluntarily contribute to an over-sexualized, hedonistic, desensitized, all-is-relative, "it's all about me" pop culture that exists today in mass media, which, IMHO, starts its influence at an early age.

2) I did not create or contribute to the creation of broken homes...families where only one parent is around, be it a result of divorce, neglect or abuse or what have you...I am not responsible for parents of children who haven't "grown up" themselves.

3) I did not create, seek to create, or voluntarily contribute to an economic environment where both mom and dad need to work, thus resulting in less time with the kids. I also did not create the keeping up with the Jones'es way of thinking that often necessitates a lifestyle that can only be afforded IF both parents work.

In short..."we are ALL responsible" is a bit of a stretch. I'm ultimately responsible for my kids, and have control over the way they are raised. I can be a positive influence to other children I come into contact with through my words and deeds, but I am NOT responsible for them.

I'm not perfect, I don't have all the answers...
Just MHO...

And if the kids are ever going to get it right they might as well get this first. No matter what anyone else does or does not do - your life is your own. You screw it up and you are the person who will suffer the most.

And yes, I fought against the current culture all my life to try to raise reasonably good adults. We seemed to have achieved something there. I was NOT responsible for the sleasy environment. But I was responsible for how much I allowed to invade my home.

That make ZERO sense.

What part doesn't make sense to you?

I was NOT responsible for the sleazy environment. But I was responsible for how much I allowed to invade my home.

Kudos to you sir.

He who takes gkyo of age of e 12 is your friend foolish in order of for the sake of. He in order to respect, becomes the mother, that being necessary, or, that it is not depended him of the friend is his he himself, TEL. making a mistake, not to be that thing thing which is used.

But Max is not smart enough to realize that his friend could get him in deep trouble - you don't have to do the crime to be caught up in the consequences. Don't you have to be 14 to have sex? [Legally]
And: THIS NEVER WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF YOU SPENT ALL YOUR TIME BIKING!

Believe it or not Max, Siu is right. Right now it seems like fun to act like a dufus all the time, and I say this with a huge load of irony, but really, one day you're going to wake up and have goals for yourself and try to do something with your life. Avoid the same mistakes your friends have made, and remember to wear you're helmet, and I will too. :)

:)

I was NOT responsible for the sleasy environment. But I was responsible for how much I allowed to invade my home.

This sums up my point. So many parents bemoan the current culture of youth, yet do not question what influence they have. In generous allowances, priviledges, lack of involvement in their lives, lack of social cohesion that is the result of governments that adults vote for, and in large part due to the continuing pace of the empty, consumerist lifestyle. It just creeps up. 1 year, 2 years no biggie. Take a look back 20 years and see what's changed. Wow.


Not to nit-pick or be argumentative...but...

1) I did not create, seek to create, or voluntarily contribute to an over-sexualized, hedonistic, desensitized, all-is-relative, "it's all about me" pop culture that exists today in mass media, which, IMHO, starts its influence at an early age.

2) I did not create or contribute to the creation of broken homes...families where only one parent is around, be it a result of divorce, neglect or abuse or what have you...I am not responsible for parents of children who haven't "grown up" themselves.

3) I did not create, seek to create, or voluntarily contribute to an economic environment where both mom and dad need to work, thus resulting in less time with the kids. I also did not create the keeping up with the Jones'es way of thinking that often necessitates a lifestyle that can only be afforded IF both parents work.

In short..."we are ALL responsible" is a bit of a stretch. I'm ultimately responsible for my kids, and have control over the way they are raised. I can be a positive influence to other children I come into contact with through my words and deeds, but I am NOT responsible for them.

I'm not perfect, I don't have all the answers...
Just MHO...

I agree completely. I do not see myself as an enabler of this either. The funny thing is that everyone sees themselves this way. Don't they? Maybe we are both just of the part of society that really genuinely doesn't and won't contribute to this. But the point is that so many are.

I am very frustrated to feel just the way you do, but know that the general trend is towards this and that I have to contend with it nonetheless.

This is why you need to beat you kids. Kids who don't get the snot beat out of them once in a while do stupid stuff. Then again kids who do get beat also do stupid stuff... Ah... I still say beat them.