I just got called by a big corporate company who wanted me to come in and work for them for 2-3 months. There were several reasons I said no, but one of the big ones is I HAVE NO CLOTHES.
All I've bought in the past 3 months are cycling clothes.
When I started this whole thing, I went through my closet and tried everything on. I packed the stuff away that was too small for me in boxes labeled "-10 lbs", "-20 lbs", etc.
I have now emptied all the boxes except one (and it's tiny), but I've already had to ditch the clothes I just opened up! Most of the stuff that fits me now is winter clothes.
Sure, I can cover myself if I need to. And I wear the baggy stuff around the house (which is fine, because I work from my house), but if I have to pull together something decent to wear, it ain't gonna happen. The few things I do have don't even go together.
And I'm not buying new clothes unless I have to, much less a work wardrobe for 3 months.
Just thought I'd share! It's a nice problem to complain about! Anyone care to join me? :D
Tom Stormcrowe
08-16-07, 04:37 PM
I gave all my big stuff to UPS and right now, I have VERY limited stuff to wear other than cycling duds or jeans or shorts and T Shirts. Feels great though!
Terrierman
08-16-07, 04:38 PM
Based on the thread title, I am disappointed at the lack of pictures. Or maybe pictorial would be a better way to put it...
Bill Kapaun
08-16-07, 04:44 PM
I know! It was the first thread I clicked!:)
solveg
08-16-07, 04:50 PM
OK! I'll take a picture of the best* work outfit I can get together. Honest to god truth.
Stujoe
08-16-07, 04:56 PM
LOL With that thread title, this should get 250 views very soon. ;)
I am back into my clothes again. For a while, it was all sport shorts with elastic. Now, I can fit into my jean/khaki, etc shorts when I need too. All my shirts are pretty much Tshirts anyway and I like them big so I can lose 50 more pounds and still be happy in my XLs and XXLs. I am kind of a relaxed dressing guy.
I do hope to be down to my skinny jeans by winter. They are currently in the basement.
jem3907
08-16-07, 05:26 PM
I like others automatically added the word "on" at the end of your thread. But your problem is actually
a good one as it means that your accomplishing your goal. Keep up the good work.
piper_chuck
08-16-07, 05:30 PM
I know! It was the first thread I clicked!:)
+1,287,321,876 :D Congrats on having such a problem!
Caincando1
08-16-07, 06:11 PM
Congrats! And what do you do that you get to turn down work?
I know the feeling. This past winter we spent a bunch of money updating my wardrobe with very trendy, big dude clothes. They would all look killer on my now that I'm smaller... but they are all way to big. My wife, who is a recovering shopaholic, wants to keep buying me clothes. I won't let her because I know I'll shrink out of them. I did let her buy me a killer pair of vintage low rise boot cut jeans that are one size to small. They are motivation for me to make sure I can fit into them by fall.
solveg
08-16-07, 06:24 PM
Well, I'm a freelance photoshop jockey/ designer/advertising person. I worked for this place for a few months before when they were busy, but now I have more of my own clients. If I go somewhere for 3 months, to my clients it's like me taking a 3 month vacation. And the deadlines are too tight to do both.
So, yeah, I wanted the steady income, but by not going it was kind of an act of faith on my future. Besides, I already have work that I would need to finish up before I went. It's all kind of messy, and going to a place for 3 months would just make it messier.
CastIron
08-16-07, 07:02 PM
I'm quite sympathetic. Hell I bought a medium size vest from Patagonia the other day. All my nice suits are gone, I have like two polo shirts, one pair of jeans...
Next spring will be one heckuva trip to Brook Brothers.
solveg
08-16-07, 07:03 PM
I'm quite sympathetic. Hell I bought a medium size vest from Patagonia the other day. All my nice suits are gone, I have like two polo shirts, one pair of jeans...
Next spring will be one heckuva trip to Brook Brothers.
(In homer simpson voice)
Medium. MMMMMM.
BeckyW
08-16-07, 07:07 PM
I'm really glad I work from home, too. So far most of my stretchy-type clothes still fit ok, but I had to (got to) throw out the big jeans last week. My skinny ones are still a bit snug, but they should carry me through the winter. Bike clothes are more fun to buy than professional clothes, anyway... :rolleyes:
Spartan112
08-16-07, 07:36 PM
I've gotten down to large bottoms and XL tops in the past few months. School is starting soon and there isn't much I had in my closet except a few things I kept when I was on the way up. Steve&Barry's was my savior, especially since it doesn't seem like it will be too long before I'm down to Large for my shirts. It's a problem, but a good one to have.
East Hill
08-16-07, 07:37 PM
One of the great things about working for the USPS is that if you aren't a window clerk, you can wear just about anything you want as long as you have no open toe/no open back shoes, and you're reasonably decently covered.
My work clothes are also my biking clothes (at least for reasonably short trips, under 30 miles). I do look like a fred, though. Who cares?
:D
East Hill
rjm1982
08-16-07, 07:39 PM
I yearn for the day When I put on an entire outfit with no "X" to be found any any tag.
rjm1982
08-16-07, 07:43 PM
One of the great things about working for the USPS is that if you aren't a window clerk, you can wear just about anything you want as long as you have no open toe/no open back shoes, and you're reasonably decently covered.
Thats what I love about my job. Today... black jean shorts, button up short sleeve and hiking sandals. Yesterday I wore a tshirt that sais nothing but "Pwnd" in big white letters. I have about 10 penny arcade shirts and probably 10 more from thinkgeek... I get to where whatever I want.
I love working for a small company, especially as a developer...I rarely have to attend meetings... I just code and play ping-pong. And, just in case, we all keep a set of "emergency" clothes in the closet. Semi-formal stuff for those clients that call and say 'Hey, we're in Norfolk today, we might stop by and check you guys out!'
Then again, most of our clients end up taking their jackets and ties off, loosening their shirts and playing some ping-pong with us... :)
Back to the topic...
Do your feet shrink too? At least the width? I always end up having a hard time trying to find wides...
The Historian
08-16-07, 08:03 PM
I yearn for the day When I put on an entire outfit with no "X" to be found any any tag.
It can happen, brother.
Wogsterca
08-16-07, 08:11 PM
One of the great things about working for the USPS is that if you aren't a window clerk, you can wear just about anything you want as long as you have no open toe/no open back shoes, and you're reasonably decently covered.
My work clothes are also my biking clothes (at least for reasonably short trips, under 30 miles). I do look like a fred, though. Who cares?
:D
East Hill
I work as a truck loader for a courier company, and work nights, I basically wear shorts and a T-shirt for the summer, will switch to jeans in a couple of weeks, when it gets cooler out, nice thing about working when the big shooters aren't around, I shave like twice a week now, saves a ton of money on blades and shaving soap. Might just let it go for the winter though, at least until my S.O. complains.:D
The Historian
08-16-07, 08:14 PM
Thats what I love about my job. Today... black jean shorts, button up short sleeve and hiking sandals. Yesterday I wore a tshirt that sais nothing but "Pwnd" in big white letters. I have about 10 penny arcade shirts and probably 10 more from thinkgeek... I get to where whatever I want.
I love working for a small company, especially as a developer...I rarely have to attend meetings... I just code and play ping-pong. And, just in case, we all keep a set of "emergency" clothes in the closet. Semi-formal stuff for those clients that call and say 'Hey, we're in Norfolk today, we might stop by and check you guys out!'
Then again, most of our clients end up taking their jackets and ties off, loosening their shirts and playing some ping-pong with us... :)
Back to the topic...
Do your feet shrink too? At least the width? I always end up having a hard time trying to find wides...
I found I dropped two shoe sizes - 14 to 12, but my feet got wider. But some of the width is to accommodate arch supports.
Meanwhile, I went from a 60" inch waist to a 44, and on a good day I can wear a 42. The loose skin buildup around my waist keeps me a little broader than other guys weighing 240.
I've also shrunk in the chest area, although not enough for my liking - I still have severe gynecomastia. I can wear a size 17 dress shirt, or an XL sport shirt, depending on cut. I prefer shirts - and jerseys - cut loose; when someone says "nice rack", I want them to refer to my commuter bike.
BCIpam
08-17-07, 07:27 AM
I've often wonder... I have several male friends that need to lose weight and their biggest complaint is "man boobs"
Why can't a guy wear a jog bra. Would that be too creepy? At least it would hold the "girls" up and in so you can wear lycra/spandex without fear. Even with a broad chest there are companies out there that make jog bras for larger woman that should fit a guy.
I'm just saying... :p
Tom Stormcrowe
08-17-07, 07:28 AM
I have the loose skin issues too, because of massive weight loss. I wear a compression/wicking T under my jerseys to prevent the "Parachute" or "Flying Squirrel" effect ;)
It helps when you're still a bit big too and contributes to wicking the sweat enyway. That way, you don't have to use Kramers invention of the "Bro".I've often wonder... I have several male friends that need to lose weight and their biggest complaint is "man boobs"
Why can't a guy wear a jog bra. Would that be too creepy? At least it would hold the "girls" up and in so you can wear lycra/spandex without fear. Even with a broad chest there are companies out there that make jog bras for larger woman that should fit a guy.
I'm just saying... :p
The Historian
08-17-07, 07:36 AM
I've often wonder... I have several male friends that need to lose weight and their biggest complaint is "man boobs"
Why can't a guy wear a jog bra. Would that be too creepy? At least it would hold the "girls" up and in so you can wear lycra/spandex without fear. Even with a broad chest there are companies out there that make jog bras for larger woman that should fit a guy.
I'm just saying... :p
You have to be joking. Do you think folks with gynecomastia want it emphasized? Mine are reduced to largely skin sacs now, thank goodness.
"I Tiresias, old man with wrinkled dugs. Perceived the scene, and foretold the rest"
- T. S. Eliot, The Waste Land
JeeperTim
08-17-07, 10:20 AM
Jog bra's mash things flat. ;) Still - I could not really see a guy being comfortable with that idea.
The Historian
08-17-07, 11:10 AM
Jog bra's mash things flat. ;) Still - I could not really see a guy being comfortable with that idea.
No, not at all. Between the Lycra and the bra any guy, no matter how masculine, would feel like a freakish drag queen.
BCIpam
08-17-07, 11:37 AM
Sorry it was just a thought... didn't think it through. :o
I think Tom's undershirt idea makes perfect sense.
Terrierman
08-17-07, 12:33 PM
Might be all right if you're a vegan with man boobs though, there are some pretty open minds in that camp....:D
mschack63
08-17-07, 02:25 PM
This thread is just too funny. ROFLMAO
JeeperTim
08-17-07, 02:43 PM
Yeah, it did take a funny turn. :D
BCIpam
08-17-07, 04:33 PM
But I was serious! :(:mad:
No actually I was not but I know by guy friends all have that man boobs issue to contend with. I don't think it's a matter of size but age. Lots of skinny guys have the same problem.
Mmmmmm maybe I can develop a product line just for guys... a man bra for man boobs! I'll make it in manly colors like green cammo or brown. It could look more like an undershirt just in case any of it shows. It iwll be your little secret! Imagine the commercial ads.. "Men... are you afraid of appearing in public with something on other than a thick sweatshirt? Are you afraid of being asked out on a date by the wrong sex? Well here's your answer...!"
OK think I took this too far! :rolleyes: That is all...
jaxgtr
08-17-07, 04:46 PM
I was in the same boat and then I had to go buy a suit. Now IT does not fit. I have to take the thing in to get resized, but since I wear a suit once every blue moon, it has not been a priority. While congrats are in order, I know how you feel. I have limited my wardrobe to khaki and basic polo type shirts from Casual Male XL cause they have those wicking shirts from George Forman. They are basic and not real expensive considering how fast I am going into the new sizes.
jaxgtr
08-17-07, 04:50 PM
Why can't a guy wear a jog bra. Would that be too creepy? I'm just saying... :p
Cause I can't and yes it would. Haven't we already chickified the man enough??? :D:p
BCIpam
08-17-07, 05:38 PM
I have to admit - it creeps me out when a man who eyebrows groomed better than mine and his nails are in better shape, and he uses facial cremes and masks, and pays $50 for a cut, designer clothes... I like a good ole fashion guy, facial hair, a $10 barber cut, clothes are clean but don't necessary match. And the only creme he uses is on his chamois!
The Historian
08-17-07, 05:47 PM
I was in the same boat and then I had to go buy a suit. Now IT does not fit. I have to take the thing in to get resized, but since I wear a suit once every blue moon, it has not been a priority. While congrats are in order, I know how you feel.
I don't think you'll be able to have a suit altered more than a size or so. It might be easier to tell your friends not to get married or die until you reach goal weight.
jaxgtr
08-17-07, 06:14 PM
I don't think you'll be able to have a suit altered more than a size or so. It might be easier to tell your friends not to get married or die until you reach goal weight.
I got it from Men's Warehouse and basically had it custom made to begin with. The told me it could be resized, downward anyway, at least 3 times.
JeeperTim
08-17-07, 10:11 PM
I like a good ole fashion guy, facial hair, a $10 barber cut, clothes are clean but don't necessary match. And the only creme he uses is on his chamois!
Hey! Are you talking about me?:D:D
I still feel a little weird about wearing spandex shorts, any more spandex or lycra would probably cause a epeliptic episode.;)
My pants dont fit any more. I have some that are 2" smaller in the waist, but they seem just a little too snug. I'll keep wearing the baggy pants for a while. I had to poke a couple more holes in my belt so it would go tighter - I liked that! Shirts and coats still fit OK but I could probably go a size smaller. My old t-shirts fit decent in the shoulders and chest, but they're pretty loose around the middle...........they somehow got stretched out.;)
Tom Stormcrowe
08-17-07, 10:43 PM
:eek:I'll tell ya what! My brain still hasn't caught up with my downsizing! I buy a pair of Jeans ansd my mind tells me they are too small when I look at them. Now, I've gone from a 74 to a 40 waist that's a little loose mind you. It still catches me off guard though. How long will it take the brain to catch up?:eek:
JeeperTim
08-18-07, 01:14 PM
:eek:I'll tell ya what! My brain still hasn't caught up with my downsizing! I buy a pair of Jeans ansd my mind tells me they are too small when I look at them. Now, I've gone from a 74 to a 40 waist that's a little loose mind you. It still catches me off guard though. How long will it take the brain to catch up?:eek:
Whew! I did not have that much to lose. The amount of weight is not my motivator, it's my health. Weight is kind of a side issue. I went to the doc last summer because I was not feeling right and found out I was anemic and had high blood pressure. I had to get 2 units of blood immediatly. It's been a long process to get through that - still continueing. It's under control but requires a lot of drugs to keep it there. I want to get healthier and get off of as many drugs as possible.
I have no intention of ageing gracefully.;)
I only need to drop about 40# total - I'm about 1/2 way there.:)
My dad had a triple bypass at my age, and my mom died from an anurism at 63. I want to break that trend.