Foo - And just like that you're single

Says she needs to be alone for a while
that i'm not emotional enough

ok...i think ill go to the gym, then buy some beer on the way back.

so she wants you to cry more?

ok...i think ill go to the gym, then buy some beer on the way back.

always better than haagen dazs, a bubble bath, & a jane austen novel.

so she wants you to cry more?

Apparently. That or it's her second year at college.

I've seen too much in my life to get bent out of shape about little things, like she does, i try to explain it to her...she doesn't get it.

TQ, sorry to hear it, man.

If you need to get away for a weekend to clear your head, come on back to the Land O' Lincoln the last weekend of the month and ride a century with a bunch of us. See my sig for details.

Mate, EVERY woman wants her guy to open up more. Just had this 'talk' again with my significant other.

Maybe when she's bit more mature she'll be a bit more realistic. A guy who likes her, wants her around, thinks she's amazing, provides, shows responsibility etc is pretty good in this f'ed up world.

Good luck with it dude. Hope it ends up well for you, whatever that my be.

Women nowadays don't want a man, they want another girlfriend. Men aren't emotional, and they don't cry to others. Hell, my dad didn't tell me he loved me until I was almost 30 years old!
Unless you're one of those clingy types that is scared to be alone then enjoy your freedom!!
Remember, you're not "single", you're "unmarried". Now go get a french lesson from a one eyed Belgum woman and enjoy your life. :p

I hated my gf.
So I got rid of her.
Now shes a sl**. That proves how important I am.

I hated my gf.
So I got rid of her.
Now shes a sl**. That proves how important I am.

You're too young for these thoughts, Max.....:eek:

I hated my gf.
So I got rid of her.
Now shes a sl**. That proves how important I am.

So she's a **** and a teenager eh? Give me her number and I'll call her up in a few years. ;)

:roflmao:

I'm sorry, guys. :( Timmy and Mezza - you're both in your 20's, right? And I assume your women are around the same age? All I can say is that as women get older, most of them come to understand that they cannot have perfection in their partners. Meantime, it sucks.

Says she needs to be alone for a while
that i'm not emotional enough

ok...i think ill go to the gym, then buy some beer on the way back.

A better plan would be to get within 50 yards of a marketable chick. She'll be back before you can blink. Look, we've all been there, even us older dudes. Play this to your advantage. Don't try and be tough, play the game, reel her back in, ...learn....benefit, and move on.

I'm sorry, guys. :( Timmy and Mezza - you're both in your 20's, right? And I assume your women are around the same age? All I can say is that as women get older, most of them come to understand that they cannot have perfection in their partners. Meantime, it sucks.
So Donna.... can I call you Donna? When you gonna come back "home" and steal me away from my wife??

You're too young for these thoughts, Max.....:eek:


Far to young!!!!

Hey...apparently Red is single too, now......
:love:

Really though.....something better for your current situation ALWAYS
comes along......Just a matter of time !

A better plan would be to get within 50 yards of a marketable chick. She'll be back before you can blink. Look, we've all been there, even us older dudes. Play this to your advantage. Don't try and be tough, play the game, reel her back in, ...learn....benefit, and move on.


http://campusgirlsusa.com/finalists.php?yr=08&sid=ia&epid=6&gid=3

I've got this girls number, and when we lived in the same dorm 1 1/2 years ago she showed a pretty strong interest...recently single too...maybe i should give her a call :rolleyes:

And this one told me last night that we needed to hang out more
http://campusgirlsusa.com/finalists.php?yr=08&sid=ia&epid=2&gid=1



CyLowe97, i may do that...though i don't think i could finish a century right now. I've hardly ridden this past month. Maybe that's her problem, maybe she thinks i'm getting fat.

Hey, Timmyquest, I take the situation as she really did not want to be alone. But by sending you away was a reciprocation of you "sending" her away emotionally. As far as "finding something better" the only better to be found is becoming more aware of the needs of the "one you are with." :rolleyes:

Hey...apparently Red is single too, now......
:love:

Really though.....something better for your current situation ALWAYS
comes along......Just a matter of time !
My old motto on women was:
No matter how good she looks;
No matter how well she treats you right now;
If she is single - somewhere out there, there is someone, who was sick and tired of taking her ****.

Hey, Timmyquest, I take the situation as she really did not want to be alone. But by sending you away was a reciprocation of you "sending" her away emotionally. As far as "finding something better" the only better to be found is becoming more aware of the needs of the "one you are with." :rolleyes:

I think you're close, but wrong. This is only her second year at college, last year she didn't know too many people. I think she's just going through what i went through when i first went to college and what many high school relationships go through. The difference is that i'm graduating next year and would love to move to colorado.

A friend of mine always told me that if his girlfriend, who has been dating him for almost as long as i was mine, wanted to dump him...it's her loss.

I tend to feel the same way. The thing that bugs me is that she was trying to milk some sort of mutual agreement out of me.

We go to talking about temptation, she asked if i was ever tempted, i told her thats like asking a guy if he ever jerks off. They all have and they all will again. There is a difference though of being tempted and acting on temptation. She then said that maybe i should act on my temptation, i asked her waht she meant...

I eventually had to say "Listen, i'm not breaking up with you so if you have something to say then say it", so she did.

I think you're close, but wrong. This is only her second year at college, last year she didn't know too many people. I think she's just going through what i went through when i first went to college and what many high school relationships go through. The difference is that i'm graduating next year and would love to move to colorado.

A friend of mine always told me that if his girlfriend, who has been dating him for almost as long as i was mine, wanted to dump him...it's her loss.

I tend to feel the same way. The thing that bugs me is that she was trying to milk some sort of mutual agreement out of me.

We go to talking about temptation, she asked if i was ever tempted, i told her thats like asking a guy if he ever jerks off. They all have and they all will again. There is a difference though of being tempted and acting on temptation. She then said that maybe i should act on my temptation, i asked her waht she meant...

I eventually had to say "Listen, i'm not breaking up with you so if you have something to say then say it", so she did.

Dude. all joking aside here, but it sounds as though she had found someone else and possibly already done the tango. And was looking for a way out of it with you in order for her to feel like less of a ****. Seen it 1000 times before, and had it happen to be back when I was a "careing" individual.

Dang, so much for "forever and forever, Amen." :rolleyes:

Dude. all joking aside here, but it sounds as though she had found someone else and possibly already done the tango. And was looking for a way out of it with you in order for her to feel like less of a ****. Seen it 1000 times before, and had it happen to be back when I was a "careing" individual.

You think i don't know this?

I told my best friend here at school that i thought she was cheating on me about two weeks ago. I don't know if she is, but i know she's got a few guys locked in...it's not too hard to see.

Look on the bright side, no one to bicth at you while you watch the ball game in your skivies and scratch yer nutz. :)

Im sorry timmy...
Hope you work things out with her, you seem crazy about her when you talk about her.
hey maybe you odd to show her all the beautiful things you have posted about her! :)

Enjoy your time alone!!!! :) Really, breaksup suck but you'll realized how much you really like being single.

Now you can do anything you want and just make yourself HAPPY!!! :)

Enjoy your time alone!!!! :) Really, breaksup suck but you'll realized how much you really like being single.

Now you can do anything you want and just make yourself HAPPY!!! :)
Hey, this is no time to bring up ************. ;)
Erm... on second thought, maybe it is.

BTW: this is probably the 4th post I've made tonight about this subject... my mind is in the gutter.

You think i don't know this?

I told my best friend here at school that i thought she was cheating on me about two weeks ago. I don't know if she is, but i know she's got a few guys locked in...it's not too hard to see.

You seem to have a pretty level head on your shoulders. Rarely do people make moves like this without a backup or better plan, especially in your age group. That is why i gave my earlier advice. The best thing you will likely get out of it, is some "make up sexy time," even if she came back the trust is broken.

So take my advice and put the ball back in your own court. It ain't no fun when she's doin' all the dribblin'. Somebody is ALWAYS in charge in EVERY relationship. It's just a lot more painfully obvious when someone is cheatin.

Portis that avatar is something else!!!

She saw your "horse that wins the races" -comment, didn't she?

Consider this a blessing. This isn't 1869, and dating a girl from adolescence then settling down with her is just a heinous waste of time unless you live in an agrarian society where you need a passel of farmhands. You don't.

You're young, you're in school, which means you're surrounded by single, attractive females, some of whom are bound to not be Catholic! Enjoy yourself, you have my permission.

1. People need physical contact. Especially when they're young and horny. Expecting a long distance relationship to work in a college environment is unrealistic. Playing solitaire just isn't as much fun as a good game of poker. Pun intended.

2. Late teens/early twenties are one of the most dynamic times in a person's life. What people want changes quickly when thrown into a new environment.

Good news is that you'll be graduating soon and are free of the bonds of a serious relationship. Live it up. Try out a few partners (but never use your partners. treat them with respect/dignity/honesty at all times. and wear a condom!). Learn a lot. Move on to the next phase of your life.

Maybe when she's bit more mature she'll be a bit more realistic.

:roflmao:

Good luck with THAT!

I'm sorry, guys. :( Timmy and Mezza - you're both in your 20's, right? And I assume your women are around the same age? All I can say is that as women get older, most of them come to understand that they cannot have perfection in their partners. Meantime, it sucks.

Sadly, or fortunately, I'm in my mid thirties. But thanks for the compliment ;)

:roflmao:

Good luck with THAT!


Um, yeah. It was a bit naiive :(

;)

Enjoy your time alone!!!! :) Really, breaksup suck but you'll realized how much you really like being single.

Now you can do anything you want and just make yourself HAPPY!!! :)

Unfortunately i ****ed myself and have never really been single. I'm about as lost as grandma in the middle of a desert in that regard.

Unfortunately i ****ed myself and have never really been single. I'm about as lost as grandma in the middle of a desert in that regard.
Well, University is about educating yourself. Get crackin!

I'm not sure if you're torn up about this, but it sounds to me like you just dodged a bullet... You haven't sounded happy to be in this relationship for a while.

So :beer:

(if I'm mistaken, I'm sorry!)

I'm not sure if you're torn up about this, but it sounds to me like you just dodged a bullet... You haven't sounded happy to be in this relationship for a while.

So :beer:

(if I'm mistaken, I'm sorry!)

I love her to death, i my stomach has been throbbing for hours, i'm not hungry...the gym didn't help

Dude, you are so lucky. Count your blessings and enjoy doing what you want, when you want, except for having sex with another person.

Dude, you are so lucky. Count your blessings and enjoy doing what you want, when you want, except for having sex with another person.

I've never not been able to...:rolleyes:

Not all women are bad ya know.

I've never not been able to...:rolleyes:

Not all women are bad ya know.

1. I feel you may not be telling the truth:D

2. I am married to one of the good ones.:D

I love her to death, i my stomach has been throbbing for hours, i'm not hungry...the gym didn't helpIn that case, I am very sincerely sorry! :(

Edited to say: Dang, I just spent 10 minutes browsing around for what I thought you'd posted, and discovered I completely had you mixed up with another poster who also has a long-distance girlfriend (but seems kind of tired of her).

I'm sorry, again. Love hurts.

yeah, i know...i lead such a tragic life.

I just changed my facebook status to single.

Now the world shall know, and for some reason this surprised her? WTF...

PS

It's funny how serious that action is...

So Donna.... can I call you Donna? When you gonna come back "home" and steal me away from my wife??
The day hell freezes over and I decide to take up stepping on the hems of other women's dresses as a hobby.

I've never done this, is feeling hopeless and worthless normal.

Yes. How about a bike ride? The endorphins will do you good.

Stop this self-pity before the more loathsome denizens of the internet, like myself, poke fun at you. Remember:

1. You don't live anyplace where you have to worry about landmines or your children defecating out their own intestines before they die of starvation.

2. Yes it's normal.

3. See #1.

4. This sort of thing leads to Goth. You don't want that.

Listen to Kris, Timmy. He's right.

Use all the money you'll save over the next six months to purchase a custom-built bicycle.

...when hell freezes over....
Well... the Lions won today, so Hell freezing over is getting closer than you think. ;)