Foo - my favoritest band-- and and much confusion.

I'm going to see Weezer Oct. 3 in St Paul!! WOooo. They are my #1 top band, and I'm psyched.

Ok, so conundrum for foosters to solve.
Remember the best friend I went on a few dats with? He's still in the picture.
Remember triguy I was kind of dating? He's still kind of around. :innocent:

We all share a deep love for Weezer. I ordered tix with my friend- we're for sure going together.

Triguy also has tickets. He knows I bought a ticket, but he got two and is looking for someone else to go. I have a feeling that as the day sneaks up he might be looking to join in on my group--

Uhhmmmm what if I'm still kind of seeing both of them? And we all have floor tickets... and, umm. :twitchy: I'm already feeling a little awkward I haven't asked if triguy wants to come with- but then, he didn't invite me to go with him :p So, could be super awkward if we all went together, or even ran into each other.

My friend knows I kind of dated (or am?) dating triguy, triguy doesn't know anything about the friend being more than a friend.

bring em both, let em battle it out...

Let the Artifice Games Begin!

:rolleyes:
not exactly the response I hoped for.

I mean, I'm not serious with either of them, I'm not even sure I'm interested in dating anyone... and we've never had exclusivity talks. But I still can't bring two potential dates to one place, at the same time.

Cripes, sounds like an episode of Seinfeld.

OooOoooooo been there ... which is why I'M RUNNING --- AAAAAAAGHHHH!!!

Believe me -- it never works out the way you want that scenario to go ..... AAAAAAAGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

Don't let them pull the thread on your sweater.

(ok that was lame)

Wait a minute, I though we were dating... ya know, for the cool stuff we're gonna buy after we break up...:p

The only thing you can do is tell triguy about your friend. Nip it in the bud, so to speak...

Dont forget your hashpipe

Don't let them pull the thread on your sweater.

(ok that was lame)

totally:roflmao2:

Don't let them pull the thread on your sweater.

(ok that was lame)
:lol:



Wait a minute, I though we were dating... ya know, for the cool stuff we're gonna buy after we break up...:p

The only thing you can do is tell triguy about your friend. Nip it in the bud, so to speak...
we never talked about exclusivity either ;) you just said you'd be significant enough for me to justify a shopping spree.

maybe things will be clearer to me by October? Considering its been 6 months + with triguy and umm 6 years of friendship with the other guy and its still clear as mud to me what i want in life...

I'll probably post whining about this a few more times btw now and then.

:rolleyes:
not exactly the response I hoped for.

I mean, I'm not serious with either of them, I'm not even sure I'm interested in dating anyone... and we've never had exclusivity talks. But I still can't bring two potential dates to one place, at the same time.

Cripes, sounds like an episode of Seinfeld.

yup, UA is right tho.
Intervention.

Don't let it get to "scenario" status.

Not to belittle your dilemma, but by then it may have resolved itself....bottom line - you should focus on enjoying the show. It's not like you created the problem, or did anything to hurt anyone.

meanwhile, practice up on all these (http://www.bikeforums.net/showthread.php?t=454707), just in case

ha, thanks for the hot tip pgoat! I'll look into those lines ;)

Who is opening? Let the opening band decide.

Guy one--six years no ring
Guy two--six months and not serious

Take UA

We all share a deep love for Weezer.

So you all love 'Wheezer'? A common bond you all share! Well then, I'm surprised it hasn't been said yet, and in foo it must be said: Threesome! :p



Cripes, sounds like an episode of Seinfeld.

It sounds like every sitcom ever written. So you know what to do. Park yourself with 'friend' in one spot, tell him you have to go to the bathroom and say "Don't move!", then find 'triguy' (before he finds you with 'friend'), chat him up a bit, then tell him you have to go to the bathroom and say "Don't move!", then go back to 'friend'. Repeat all night. Tell us how that goes. :lol:

.

I look just like Buddy Holly!

My instincts tell me you're going to end up doing with the friend+ as your date.... :)

Artifice,

I believe I am twice the man that either of them are... In age or weight.

I'll await the invitation.

;)

Make sure you eat your "pork and beans" before going to the concert.

Just take 'em both and be done with it!

Who is opening? Let the opening band decide.
angels and airwaves and tokyo police club.
umm..whats that got to do with it? ;)


My instincts tell me you're going to end up doing with the friend+ as your date.... :)
well, friend + is the official companion for the event considering we planned tix together. I'm just concerned what to do with the other guy, should he end up coming along/run into him/etc.

It's been said once so I'll say it again...3some...

It's been said once so I'll say it again...3some...

And you know artifice, we're only looking after your best interests, because from a guy's perspective, this is the wrong kind of threesome.

speak for yourself, buddy...dangit...too much said again...

rock concert, drinks, food, air filled with drug fumes...dirty thoughts and post concert...ah, concert... j/k.

Well, his name is tri guy:innocent:

Oh, the tangled web we weave. I've never been there so I have no suggestions, and most of my thoughts would be much better left unsaid. Good luck.

Oops, missed Jsharr's response. Similar to the best left unsaid stuff. :innocent:

Oh, the tangled web we weave. I've never been there so I have no suggestions, and most of my thoughts would be much better left unsaid. Good luck.

Most of my thoughts would be better left unsaid, too, but I just go ahead and type them anyway..

So...whatcha got?

Well, his name is tri guy:innocent:

:lol::thumb:

You go to the concert, both guys bump into each other, pal up and become buds... and you end up meeting a hot guy there that you DO want to get serious with.

People always look at the glass as half-empty rather than half-full.

Good work. I would buy yourself some time by making it clear that friend is still friend, for now. Unless he shares an intersection in group of friends with "triguy," he won't ever get the whole "friend zone" blues. And if "triguy" does figure there is something else at bay, then he can just go and get the fook over it.

Then again, don't listen to me. I had a reputation at the organic grocery as the butcher man who collected deli counter girls like pokemon. There was lots of drama. And you know, as organicly ****** as they were, most of them still stuck around. FTW.

... So, could be super awkward if we all went together, or even ran into each other. ...

Could give you an opportunity to see how tri-guy reacts. Seems it would be instructive to see how he handles things when he is introduced to someone who's a long-time friend.

Rumble in the mosh pit. Take bets, maybe you'll recoup the cost of the concert tickets. ;)

Take the "Kinda-Friend" guy. Why? Because hanging out with him is fun, so you know you'll have a good time at the concert to your favorite band. Tri guy bought his own tickets, so there is no pressure for you to attend with him. Go with your friend and have a good time at the Weezer concert!:roflmao2: You can sort all this "which guy stuff" out later.

Stop over-hinking things Arti.:thumb::p

Why don't you drop them both, and find someone with better (http://www.drummerworld.com/Videos/jojomayerdepartsolo.html) musical (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixyTNd-Ln38) tastes (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usC2msFdX94)?








C'mon, somebody had to say it! :p

Did tri-guy buy two tickets in the hope of taking you, only to find out you were already going?

Either way, mosh pit battle should decide things for you rather nicely.

rock concert, drinks, food, air filled with drug fumes...dirty thoughts and post concert...ah, concert... j/k.are you implying there will be drug fumes at a weezer concert? how dare you.


Take the "Kinda-Friend" guy. Why? Because hanging out with him is fun, so you know you'll have a good time at the concert to your favorite band. Tri guy bought his own tickets, so there is no pressure for you to attend with him. Go with your friend and have a good time at the Weezer concert!:roflmao2: You can sort all this "which guy stuff" out later.

Stop over-hinking things Arti.:thumb::p
cycle, i usually ride a fine line of not thinking at all, this thinking stuff is new for me, are you saying it isn't working out either?


Did tri-guy buy two tickets in the hope of taking you, only to find out you were already going?

Either way, mosh pit battle should decide things for you rather nicely.I'm not sure....? And if I'm not sure, he did a terrible job of inviting me. ha.

Well, he bought two tickets right? And then has informed you he is looking around for some one to take?

Normally, people do what you did - buy tickets with a friend (prearranged). So if he bought two tickets, he clearly had something in mind, and perhaps by talking to you about who he should bring (perhaps he was hoping you'd go with him?) it was his way of 'asking' you out. I could be wrong, and of course assuming he did not know you were going beforehand.

Why don't you drop them both, and find someone with better (http://www.drummerworld.com/Videos/jojomayerdepartsolo.html) musical (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixyTNd-Ln38) tastes (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usC2msFdX94)?








C'mon, somebody had to say it! :p

hey, Weezer's OK.

Can't hold a candle to Weird Al or Zappa, but still:p

Well, he bought two tickets right? And then has informed you he is looking around for some one to take?

Normally, people do what you did - buy tickets with a friend (prearranged). So if he bought two tickets, he clearly had something in mind, and perhaps by talking to you about who he should bring (perhaps he was hoping you'd go with him?) it was his way of 'asking' you out. I could be wrong, and of course assuming he did not know you were going beforehand.
I'm not sure, he's a hard one to figure out. I wonder if I was intentionally not invited, or..? We'd discussed the upcoming concert and traded info about presale events.
That evening he posted on his facebook about having an ex ticket, anyone want to go? We're both on google chat during the day @ work... I posted immediately when I got my ticket, I'm sure he saw it?

I'm not sure, he's a hard one to figure out. I wonder if I was intentionally not invited, or..? We'd discussed the upcoming concert and traded info about presale events.
That evening he posted on his facebook about having an ex ticket, anyone want to go? We're both on google chat during the day @ work... I posted immediately when I got my ticket, I'm sure he saw it?

DUNDUNDUNNNNNNNNNNNNN

cycle's right. I'm thinking too much.

end o' story. I'll post the report in October ;)

I'm not sure, he's a hard one to figure out. I wonder if I was intentionally not invited, or..? We'd discussed the upcoming concert and traded info about presale events.
That evening he posted on his facebook about having an ex ticket, anyone want to go? We're both on google chat during the day @ work... I posted immediately when I got my ticket, I'm sure he saw it?

Are you currently high? I got about half of this...:p

Are you currently high? I got about half of this...:pummmm... I dont think so?
(its 10AM I'm at work... eerrrr no. besides I gave most of that shizz up after college)

Hmmm...aircraft mechanics must be different then. I knew guys that were high when they walked in and high when they left...

Hmmm...aircraft mechanics must be different then. I knew guys that were high when they walked in and high when they left...
umm is aircraft mechanics code for something im unaware of?

Mile-high club envy? :)

Unfortunately, no.

are you implying there will be drug fumes at a weezer concert? how dare you.


It is the rocksz, artifice.

I think i have been to the venue they are at in St. Paul.

When the pumpkins played there last october, i don't do them fumes, but wow, i was very "happy and lightheaded". :lol:

It is the rocksz, artifice.

I think i have been to the venue they are at in St. Paul.

When the pumpkins played there last october, i don't do them fumes, but wow, i was very "happy and lightheaded". :lol::mad:lets not talk about why I couldn't go to that concert... grumble. I'm not sure where the pmpkins played... but weezer's going to be at the xcel center, which is where the wild (and lesser-known swarm) play.