Foo - My roommate had sex in the room last night...

While I was asleep. On his bed. In his closet (apparently the door was banging rather loudly). I never woke up during any of it. We share a room but have separate beds (which are about 6ft apart).

I mentioned this to a few of my friends and got a "Oh my god, I would be so pissed." Are his actions something I should be bothered by?

Yes, you should be jealous.

His bed is in the closet?

No, two separate sessions: once in the bed, once in the closet.

Buy him a cigar.

In general, I wouldn't really care. This may be a sign that he lacks the ability to give some recognition and decency, though.

It may have been rude for him to doink some guy/gal right there in the room with you (at least without sharing), but if you didn't even wake up, you don't really have a complaint.

No, two separate sessions: once in the bed, once in the closet.


You were counting?

Only you can answer that question--are YOU bothered by it? I personally would not be bothered if I didn't wake up, but if I did, I'd be pissy at them.

I miss college.

In general, I wouldn't really care. This may be a sign that he lacks the ability to give some recognition and decency, though.


He should have given a shout out? What kind of recognition? A hand signal? Thumbs up?


If I had a roomate call out my name in the middle of intercourse I would be severely damaged.

It may have been rude for him to doink some guy/gal right there in the room with you (at least without sharing), but if you didn't even wake up, you don't really have a complaint.

+1.

He should share.

He should have given a shout out? What kind of recognition? A hand signal? Thumbs up?


If I had a roomate call out my name in the middle of intercourse I would be severely damaged.

recognition that he was in the room. The word I meant to use was consideration. Consider that it was his place too and he may want to get laid.

+1.

He should share.



That is seriously gross. I could never wrap my head around that. That's like sharing chewing gum.




If feelings are involved, it's incomprehensible. 98.9% of the time feelings are involved. Probably not in the cupboard in the same room as your roomate, though. That sounds like a hook up.

While I was asleep. On his bed. In his closet (apparently the door was banging rather loudly). I never woke up during any of it. We share a room but have separate beds (which are about 6ft apart).

I mentioned this to a few of my friends and got a "Oh my god, I would be so pissed." Are his actions something I should be bothered by?

buy him a beer

recognition that he was in the room. The word I meant to use was consideration. Consider that it was his place too and he may want to get laid.


Everyone wants to get laid. What is there to consider?


No one that you have to face the next day needs to see your rump-a-humpin'.


The only people that should see your naked butt having sex are complete strangers.

For example, there are at least 50 passengers of some boat touring a remote island that know intimate details about me and my ex's sex life. And that's okay with us.:thumb:

agreed re: only strangers should be
witnesses (if any)

There are several rules when living in a dorm. For one, don't get upset by it if it is on his bed. If it's on your bed then you can complain. Even then, just be nice and have him wash the sheets for you.

The rules that apply here essentially say that if he awakes you from slumber then you have every right to watch.

as long as there is no sex on food preparation surfaces, it should be ok. be glad for him he is getting laid. trust me be glad you dont live with me. I like having sex in public.

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Showoff. Lol

Oh come on Cow, That's what college is for.
I remember one time when I was in college, I was fooling around with some girl and apparently I was a little drunk because I just threw the used condom right on the floor. My roommate stepped on it when he got up to go to the bathroom. He said it stuck to his foot. We laughed about it for a while. I still laugh about it. :beer:

I no longer miss MERTON.

YOu sure have no need for sleeping pills.. Roommates are a pain... I remember my college years.. Some how I fared well thru it.. These guys were pigs.. They got me drunk, and had their gross 'sweat hogs' - as they said, attack me.. Some how I escaped . They thought it funny. I felt the need to find new roommates. It could be worse...

The only reason you'd have to complain is if she is a member of your immediate family. :twitchy:

There is a video of myself on the internet somewhere of my roommate busting into my room in full firefighters gear yelling "FIRE EVERYONE GET OUT" as I was performing certain sexual activities on a girl.

My neighbor was a volunteer firefighter. Damn them all.

Wait... did we ever establish whether this was with a partner, or if it was a solo effort? :twitchy:

Anyway, when I was in college, I was put in the same situation. It was weird, having a couple going at it just a few feet away. I never got used to my girlfriend's roommate having sex with her boyfriend while I was there. :roflmao2:

hah. that is effin funny.

OP why not pretend to fall asleep and wait until they are in the middle
of it and then feign talking in your sleep some psycho-babble like:

"mommy, daddy, no--rover, give me the axe! Satan, satan--kill!
I need to kill!"

Oh yeah... Forgot another couple. They were like rabbits.. But, they did it within a sleeping bag, so who cared.

Showoff. Lol

yeah pretty much..........:D:D

I no longer miss MERTON.He would be trying to figure out a Rube Goldbergian machine to prevent his roommate from getting it on.


The only reason you'd have to complain is if she is a member of your immediate family. :twitchy:Or a conjoined twin.

Well I ask because I personally don't care, and I told him so. The few people I mentioned this to are all appalled by this.

You need cooler friends; people more like your roommate.

as long as there is no sex on food preparation surfaces, it should be ok. be glad for him he is getting laid. trust me be glad you dont live with me. I like having sex in public.

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What is that? The Shroud of Turin?

My knees burn just from looking at that picture.

What is that? The Shroud of Turin?

Close.

The Shroud of Doinkin'.

Hiiiyooooooooo

While I was asleep. On his bed. In his closet (apparently the door was banging rather loudly). I never woke up during any of it. We share a room but have separate beds (which are about 6ft apart).

I mentioned this to a few of my friends and got a "Oh my god, I would be so pissed." Are his actions something I should be bothered by?

Must be tough to be a virgin in college.

Bothered? Not at all! What are friends for? I would be there cheering up and providing logistical support like adjusting the lights or changing the music to match their cadence.

So, who operates the video cam, Ruben?

Wait... did we ever establish whether this was with a partner, or if it was a solo effort? :twitchy:



I call foul.

If you never woke up, how do you know it happened? Video? Damage to closet door? Just their say-so?

btw if you never woke up through all that either you are the world's soundest sleeper or it was some pretty lousy sex:innocent:

So while you may or may not appreciate what he did, I don't think there's much to be jealous of here

Must be tough to be a virgin in college.

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well done;)

that was a quasi-snap situ sort of thing

well done;)

that was a quasi-snap situ sort of thing

danke

Who'd complain about live porn in their room?

Its just sex for pete's sake. Do it all the time, what's the issue?

I've had roommates sneak in and start popping my toes. On more than one occasion the girl was bothered by this. And on more than one occasion they weren't.

give em a high five.

At least it wasn't on top of the kitchen table.. Would they have wiped down the table surface before breakfast..

Like someone else said, it only matters if it bothered YOU.

I have friends who if they got it on with me in the room I wouldn't care. And I have other friends that if they got it on in the room, I would throw them out buck naked and never talk to them again. And who knows, my wife and I may or may not have done it ourselves at some point.

There is a lot of context-specific creteria to consider, though.

Doing it in the closet is just really weird, though, no matter how you look at it.

I don't understand the question, he lives there too, right? You expect him to get a hotel or something? If it bothers you, you leave. Hell, you slept right through it anyways.

On a similar note, one night this girl and I made a little mess, so she grabbed a towel and cleaned it up. The next morning my buddy (roommate) wakes me up for work while wiping himself with his towel after a shower. I looked at the towel, then at him, and the look on my face must have given it away, because he looks at me and says "tell me you didn't use this towel".

Oh well, we still laugh about it.