Foo - Have you ever dated someone who had a hotter sibling?

I don't know what reminded me of this, but I dated a girl several years ago who attractive...but her sister was plain hot. She had a photo of her and her sister on her dresser, and I would always ogle the sister when I walked by. :love: I could tell that she could tell.

Has anyone been in this predicament? Do you have an internal struggle that you SHOULD be with the hotter one...or that you are somehow compromising because of your choice to date the less attractive sibling? Or, at holiday time, would you feel jealous when visiting family and some dude was dating the hotter sister?

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3270/2323109304_c2dd002eb2.jpg?v=0 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-ox-U3IOjo&feature=related)

The problem is when they have a hotter mom...

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Never had this problem. :D

The boyfriend has not yet annoyed me enough for me to threaten to leave him for his best friend. Guess it wouldn't work because the guy wants kids eventually and I definitely do not so he'd know it'd never work. :P

Been there... I gets real bad when you get to the "living together" phase and the hot sibling comes in for the weekend, hanging around in PJs, walking around in almost-transparent clothes with sexy underwear, getting out of the shower with nothing more than a small towel... BAD BAD BAD

Yes. I was in 9th grade. My buddy dated Ellen, and her sister, Terry took an interest in me. That didn't last long, and it was probably for the better for me, because I have no doubt I would have been a daddy before I got my diploma if she hadn't scared me off. Ellen was definitely the tom-boyish one. fitter and hotter. I'm not sure if my buddy Jim married her or not... (different high schools).

My guy's brother is hawt. But my guy is sweeter. :)

My guy's brother is hawt. But my guy is sweeter. :)

Siu!! :thumb: :thumb:

You go lady. :)

I had one of the more amazing experiences of my life with this topic c. 1980 or so. But you would never believe the story if I told you, and it had quite the tragic twist. Oh yes indeed.

Coolio.




So ANYWAY, looks ain't everything. If the guy adores you and vice versa, who cares about if he's "hawt" in the looks category?

it depends on the hawtness differential. If you're dating the buttest ugliest dude, and the brother is smokin' hot..

I still wouldn't care. He has beauty inside his soul.

I had one of the more amazing experiences of my life with this topic c. 1980 or so. But you would never believe the story if I told you, and it had quite the tragic twist. Oh yes indeed.

You CANNOT leave us hanging like that!

*flicks Eddie in forehead*

Oh great. NOW you are going to get him started. :rolleyes:

*flicks Eddie in forehead*

Oh great. NOW you are going to get him started. :rolleyes:

I love it when you get rough, Siu. :D

Can you blame me for getting him started? Come on!

I had one of the more amazing experiences of my life with this topic c. 1880 or so. But you would never believe the story if I told you, and it had quite the tragic twist. Oh yes indeed. Laudanum, petticoats, steamy telegraphs...oh, the memories.
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I had the problem back around 1988. The girl who I was interested in, and started dating, had a most beautiful sister. She (sister) and I got on too well for my liking as I had strong desires for her :love:. She would hug me, write poerty to me, and treat me as a very VERY close friend.
I had to end the relationship with my girlfriend because I felt I was betraying her with my lust for her sister. We continued as friends (my ex) as I really felt a strong friendship with her.
I didn't know if her sister really had desires for me although I hoped she did, until one night about 10 years later. My ex had flown to Sydney and I got a call from her sister to see if I was interested in a dinner date. I picked her up and out we went.
During the evening she mentioned that my ex should never find out about the night. At that point I realized all was wrong and I ensured my pants were kept on. I have conflicting thoughts about if I did the right thing :o. I keep telling myself I did. :thumb:

My ex had two sisters that were hotter.

Hotter sibling? No. Hotter mom? Yes.

What's the problem here? Just date them both...

*blink* ... *wakes up*...

oh dammit... daydreaming again...

Yes, but my roommate was dating the older, hotter sister. When they broke up though, we went out a bit.

I was with someone who had an extremely more attractive sister, physically at least, and she did the hang out in semi-transparent tank tops/pjs and underwear when she would stay over, too, like Ruben mentioned.

But, aside from being physically more attractive, she was also very immature, naive, annoying, insensitive, had no drive, no emotions, and I was embarrassed for her every time she opened her mouth and spoke.

not a sibling, but a cousin. I made a small comment, along the line of "your cousins' kinda pretty". The ensuing ice storm meant a very long quiet ride home.

So ANYWAY, looks ain't everything. If the guy adores you and vice versa, who cares about if he's "hawt" in the looks category?
My libido cares.

Prior to my fiancee (who is both amazing and freaking gorgeous), the hottest girl I ever dated was Kerry. She had a great bod, and a face that reminded me of Audrey Hepburn. But her sister just had one of those killer bods with a crooked smile. She had amazing boobs especially in a bikini. Anyways, the sister spent summers in her bikini and liked to cuddle on me when shed come in from the patio. Her sis didnt mind it because I never responded other than to allow her to get comfortable. But I kept hoping the sis would crawl in the tent in my pants. She was immature and snotty though.

My fiancees sister is both immature and not nearly as attractive as my fiancee, so there were no worries there.

I am dating the hotter sister ...

So - if you date/marry the less attractive sibling - have you "settled"?

So - if you date/marry the less attractive sibling - have you "settled"?

of course not.
The prettier one could be a total loon. Or worse.

this thred wrong

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of course not.
The prettier one could be a total loon. Or worse.

Alright - just checking... Half the posts here make it sound like they all wished they knew about the hotter sister first....

BTW - I think my sister is prettier, but I have a better body. Who wins in that case?

Only once - and I just broke up with her...

I had one of the more amazing experiences of my life with this topic c. 1980 or so. But you would never believe the story if I told you, and it had quite the tragic twist. Oh yes indeed.

Dear, Penthouse. I never thought this kind of thing would happen to me.....

Alright - just checking... Half the posts here make it sound like they all wished they knew about the hotter sister first....

BTW - I think my sister is prettier, but I have a better body. Who wins in that case?

You really wanna open that can o worms?

I have always been of the school of thought that a pretty face is the foundation to a tower of hotness. A prerequisite, if you will, to the pinnacle of smokin' hot bangin'ness.

You really wanna open that can o worms?

I have always been of the school of thought that a pretty face is the foundation to a tower of hotness. A prerequisite, if you will, to the pinnacle of smokin' hot bangin'ness.


I agree. Here's the deal. Looks fade... but faces fade slower than bodies do. So finding that person with the face that lights up your world is the best start, because in 40 years the foundation that face is on will still be there, even if its a little droopier. If he/she works out the body will be there for a while, but its more likely to go sooner.

my wife has 3 sisters. 2 of them could melt glass and the other can shatter mirrors.
I still married my wife.

my wife has 3 sisters. 2 of them could melt glass and the other can shatter mirrors.
I still married my wife.

Dude, you said that out loud...oh, wait, are you the dude who has a wife that looks like Debbie Harry? Nevermind.

That's like saying I have access to C-4 and Semtex, but I picked dynamite.

dude, you said that out loud...oh, wait, are you the dude who has a wife that looks like debbie harry? Nevermind.

That's like saying i have access to c-4 and semtex, but i picked rdx.

fify

Boys are funny - that is all.

Boys are funny - that is all.

boys? :rolleyes:
I'm 41 yrs old. :twitchy:

fify

At that level, it's just semantics. Would you rather be burned by lava or disintegrated by laser eyes? Same result.

At that level, it's just semantics. Would you rather be burned by lava or disintegrated by laser eyes? Same result.

which ones quicker? Cause if I did mess around with one of the SILs, well, I'd want to go as quickly as possible.

boys? :rolleyes:
I'm 41 yrs old. :twitchy:

This thread makes you all boys.

So - if you date/marry the less attractive sibling - have you "settled"?

I would say no, using the following logic. What if I'm not "good looking enough" to get the hotter/hottest sister?

which ones quicker? Cause if I did mess around with one of the SILs, well, I'd want to go as quickly as possible.

nanoseconds. your old lady got the laser eyes or she made of lava? my old lady is radioactive. 500 R solid. I only know a few families where everyone is good looking. I have this theory I call Ka_Jun's inverse aethetics theory. I figure, if you have two ugly parents, then the kids are wicked good looking. Conversely, if you have two attractive 'rents, the kids are m'eh.

I would say no, using the following logic. What if I'm not "good looking enough" to get the hotter/hottest sister?

Your whole paradigm is wrong. You don't HAVE to be "good looking enough", the variable that you should be concerned about is the "crazy variable". Does the better looking sibling have a high crazy factor? Helen of Troy aint worth it if she's Grape Nuts crazy.

This thread makes you all boys.

I prefer to simply think of it as art appreciation. I see a really nice painting, I can admire it, get lost in the beauty which the artist was trying to portray. Doesn't mean I want to buy it. Same with females. I love to look at pretty women. But you know what? You have to be able to carry a conversation with them. You have to enjoy their company. You have to want to be with them. And sadly, there's a lot of pretty women that don't meet those basic criteria.

nanoseconds. your old lady got the laser eyes or she made of lava? my old lady is radioactive. 500 R solid. I only know a few families where everyone is good looking. I have this theory I call Ka_Jun's inverse aethetics theory. I figure, if you have two ugly parents, then the kids are wicked good looking. Conversely, if you have two attractive 'rents, the kids are m'eh.

So you're saying my parents were both smoking hot. :cry:

BTW - I think my sister is prettier, but I have a better body. Who wins in that case?

Pictures would be required in order to answer that question.

I prefer to simply think of it as art appreciation. I see a really nice painting, I can admire it, get lost in the beauty which the artist was trying to portray. Doesn't mean I want to buy it. Same with females. I love to look at pretty women. But you know what? You have to be able to carry a conversation with them. You have to enjoy their company. You have to want to be with them. And sadly, there's a lot of pretty women that don't meet those basic criteria.

I called you boys for a reason. Cause I was amused how easily you can reduce things to outside factors for the sake of discussion.

If I really thought you were all shallow jerks, I wouldn't have kept reading. :)

FWIW - I would much rather be called a girl than the "ma'am" I got yesterday.... :(

Pictures would be required in order to answer that question.

This is the internet. Therefore I am the hottest girl on the planet - I just don't want you all drooling over me.... :innocent: