Foo - Does your sweetheart FLIRT??

I believe that there's a difference between innocent flirting like what is done here on Foo and actual attractive flirting which can lead to heartbreak. In your opinion, where is the line drawn?

So far, I've been pretty darn lucky. :)

She flirts with me.

:love:

Foo flirting is innocent?

Shoot. No wonder I'm in the Dateless Loser thread so much.

In your opinion, where is the line drawn?


Crookedly

There is a line?
Uh oh.
Oh wait. I'm single.

There is a line?


Yes, but you can get in front of me. :thumb:

hard to describe/define. you just know in your gut when it;s wrong/gone too far. I know a guy who's married who crosses the line on occasion...hard to watch when it happens cause he is a nice guy otherwise and his wife is a sweetheart...he just has too much to drink when they're out and he gets a little 'too wonderful'.....

Yes, but you can get in front of me. :thumb:

I'm afraid of being molested.

I'm afraid of being molested.

Arti has some advice for you here (http://www.bikeforums.net/showthread.php?t=578970).

I think my friendly nature gets confused with being flirtatious... it has gotten me into a little trouble.

Arti has some advice for you here (http://www.bikeforums.net/showthread.php?t=578970).

Per my post in that thread, I like my fears. This one seems especially healthy. :D

I think my friendly nature gets confused with being flirtatious... it has gotten me into a little trouble.

Quit flirting with me. jeeze

I think my friendly nature gets confused with being flirtatious... it has gotten me into a little trouble.

Oh no.

yes i am too freindly but she gets mad if i spend tooo much time talking to anyone

Oh no.

Oh yes.

It sounds funny but it is hard to tell a person you don't like them in the way they like you... it's a little flattering but then you wonder if you said or did anything that may have given the wrong impression.

But then again... maybe it's just my dead sexy legs causing all the problems and has nothing to do with what I say.

:lol:

I'd flirt with artifice, but I just love her too much.

Pretty much the same thing with all the Ladies of Foo. Dammit...why'd you all have to be so awesome?

Flirting is one of my Super Powers

I'm a huge flirt, but it's innocent.

My wife doesn't flirt, but she doesn't mind me flirting, mostly because she is also friends with my flirtees, and I don't cross whatever line Siu talks about, I guess.

I have a ring on my hand, so I'm not going to flirt with strange women and look like some sort of creep. Better to just SEEM creepy than actually remove all doubt by flirting.
:innocent:

Does she? Not in front of me. Do I? You already know the answer to that.

most people think I'm a creep anyways, so I just go ahead and flirt. The wife doesn't say much about it as it usually gets us free stuff, or at least a discount.....I feel like a hooker! :cry:

I believe that there's a difference between innocent flirting like what is done here on Foo and actual attractive flirting which can lead to heartbreak. In your opinion, where is the line drawn?

So far, I've been pretty darn lucky. :)

Eh, not really.

I don't usually intend to flirt, but have been told I am flirty. :o On the rare occasion its intentional, its all in good fun. The BF doesn't have much game, so I don't worry about him ;)


I'd flirt with artifice, but I just love her too much.

Pretty much the same thing with all the Ladies of Foo. Dammit...why'd you all have to be so awesome?
:love: aww foo wuv.

most people think I'm a creep anyways, so I just go ahead and flirt. The wife doesn't say much about it as it usually gets us free stuff, or at least a discount.....I feel like a hooker! :cry:

that's creepy:p

yah, I flirt, as does my wife (and not just with each other).
we are both secure enough in our relationship to know it's meaningless. And we
both have clearly defined lines that we won't cross.

marty

I used to be a huge flirt in my teens and early 20s. Somehow I seem to have lost my mojo in my marriage. Now that I am single again I must locate it. la la

yah, I flirt, as does my wife (and not just with each other).
we are both secure enough in our relationship to know it's meaningless. And we
both have clearly defined lines that we won't cross.

marty

pants must stay on. Pretty much the line not to cross. :innocent:

pants must stay on. Pretty much the line not to cross. :innocent:

Unless you're not wearing pants to begin with. Then things get complicated:innocent:

I think my friendly nature gets confused with being flirtatious... it has gotten me into a little trouble.

My brother-in-law is like that--very friendly guy. When I first met him, I kept wondering if he was flirting with me! :lol: He's like that with everybody, though, and is a super nice guy.

Unless you're not wearing pants to begin with. Then things get complicated:innocent:

well, if I'm not wearing pants and I'm not in the shower and the wifes not around...trust me, that line has been passed.

What sweetheart?

well, if I'm not wearing pants and I'm not in the shower and the wifes not around...trust me, that line has been passed.

I have every trust in you, sir. To my knowledge, that is all of mine that is, or has ever been in you.:innocent:

I flirt MERCILESSLY with my BF crush, but we're both happily taken.

I flirt occasionally when out with my girlfriends, but nothing that MJ would question if he was there with us.

I don't flirt at all when I'm out with MJ (unless it's with him). I just have never felt the desire to.

MJ doesn't flirt with anyone else at all as far as I can tell. I know he gets hit on when he's out with his dudes sometimes, but I've never, ever thought of him as the 'flirt' type... it wouldn't bother me much, but he just hasn't given me the impression that he's out flirting around.

I flirt with myself. Sometimes it even works and I have myself.

I flirt with my wife's friends, have even done so at my wife's request (long story)

Some time I seem to flirt with out even knowing it.

My gf is a prude in many ways, and a master of flirtation in others.

She has borderline upset me on occasion, but that said more about my own insecurities more so than any infraction on her part.

Once we had one of those horribly awkward discussions on the topic. When she asked me what was kosher, I said "do whatever you want to". To my surprise, she was vexed and told me that I should make some boundaries so she and I won't make any mistakes and hurt one another.

Since then, we've been mostly fine. We both still flirt, but we don't stray or cross the line. *crosses fingers*

In the end, if you wouldn't want to walk in on it, then don't do it. Keeps things simple.

Unless you're not wearing pants to begin with. Then things get complicated:innocent:
THAT is what those pics you sent me are!

What sweetheart?

Your gilf.

I believe that there's a difference between innocent flirting like what is done here on Foo and actual attractive flirting which can lead to heartbreak. In your opinion, where is the line drawn?
The line is crossed when the vibes change.

...or when you feel your sig other might be uncomfortable with it.

My wife doesn't flirt now and didn't even flirt with me when we are dating (she is too straight and stiff to flirt).

I flirt with her sister and best friend all the time and my wife is okay with it.

What was the question again?

My wife doesn't flirt now and didn't even flirt with me when we are dating (she is too straight and stiff to flirt).

I flirt with her sister and best friend all the time and my wife is okay with it.

What was the question again?

are your pants on right now?

My fiancee and I don't flirt. We're computer and science nerds with poor social skills outside of work-related conversation. It's a blessed miracle we ended up with each other; never mind trying to impress anyone else.

When my wife makes a girls night out, they routinely get drinks from guys. I'm fine with that.

When my wife makes a girls night out, they routinely get drinks from guys. I'm fine with that.

Doesn't mean that she's a flirt; just means that she's attractive enough to get drinks from guys. :)

I don't flirt; I joke around a lot, though. I guess that's flirting...?

My wife is extremely quiet and shy. I don't think she could flirt if her life depended on it. Fine with me.