Foo - How many girlfriends can you juggle at once?

How many girls can you date at once before the **** hits the fan.
I'm casually dating two girls, and have a date tomorrow night with another, and I have another female "friend" from out of state coming to town to visit and stay at my apt for a week, next month. This isn't going to end well I have a feeling.

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I can't juggle any.....my wife won't let me. ;)

:popcorn:beer: I think I'll just sit back and enjoy this string.

Stupid! I hate to break it to you Son, but your stuff ain't that great. This is a prime example of someone feeling they are so fabulous that they will put him/herself in a situation that will only lead to lifelong loneliness.

Stupid! I hate to break it to you Son, but your stuff ain't that great. This is a prime example of someone feeling they are so fabulous that they will put him/herself in a situation that will only lead to lifelong loneliness.

:rolleyes:

I was briefly dating three, when one fateful day:
1. One dumped me.
2. The other two learned about each other and both told me to get lost.

That was a bad day.:(

Is this a retaliation of sorts for the last relationship's bad ending?

Have never tried to "juggle" more than one at at time, as I would not like to be on the other end of the juggling.

Less than one usually.

Is this a retaliation of sorts for the last relationship's bad ending?
I would have to say Yes. Yes it is!

As long as they are all aware of each other it shouldn't be an issue.

As long as they are all aware of each other it shouldn't be an issue.

+1

If you want to play the field, say so. Then the women don't have anything to complain about.

As many as Tude will let me. None.

Couch

I was dating 3 (they all knew about each other) until a 4th found my heart. I happily gave all of them up for that 4th. Said 4th and I just finished up a great Sunday hike.

I was dating 3 (they all knew about each other) until a 4th found my heart. I happily gave all of them up for that 4th. Said 4th and I just finished up a great Sunday hike.

+1

Same thing here.

Edit: Annnd of course I tried introducing them to see where that would go.

In casually dating, I've found one can pull it off. If any one starts to get more serious than the others, you might as well quit then.

So, are you asking "in one night"? If so, the answer is two.

+1

Same thing here.

Edit: Annnd of course I tried introducing them to see where that would go.

I thought about that for about two seconds, as numbers 1-3 are all bisexual, but #4 isn't. Also, I wouldn't want to introduce the crazy that 1-3 have. #4 is Jewish (as am I) and #1 was anti-Israel, so that was out; #2 ended up moving out of town; and #1 found a beau of her own.

Initially I thought it was slightly tragic, but then I realized how uncomplicated and beautiful it made things.


So, are you asking "in one night"? If so, the answer is two.

Amateur.

Watch this first:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119326/

Amateur.
I'm a giving person...I like to give them each about 50% of what they should get.

Just get 4 cell phones.

When I reach my limit, I'll let you know.

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I can't juggle.

Three, two if I am sober.

before my memory was shot 5, these days I keep it around one. keeps having to remember names and where I am supposed to be easier.
plus the meds make me tired.

I thought the title of the thread said "jiggle"

Stupid! I hate to break it to you Son, but your stuff ain't that great. This is a prime example of someone feeling they are so fabulous that they will put him/herself in a situation that will only lead to lifelong loneliness.

And this is a bad thing? Personally, I love living alone.

How many girls can you date at once before the **** hits the fan.
I'm casually dating two girls, and have a date tomorrow night with another, and I have another female "friend" from out of state coming to town to visit and stay at my apt for a week, next month. This isn't going to end well I have a feeling.

The trick is to be honest and not give anyone the impression that they are the only one. If you're only casually dating them, and you're happy for them to have their fun on the side (as they probably are anyway), then there's nothing wrong with it. But you need to be prepared to be honest and prepared to risk losing them if any of them decide they want something more from you in the future.

It depends on how much they weigh. I ain't no spring chipcom any more, ya know.

Less than one usually.

+1

And this is a bad thing? Personally, I love living alone.

Absolutely not but you misinterpreted my words. Living alone is a great thing but to have lifelong loneliness is not.

1 is either enough or way more than enough for me.

Less than one usually.

(Lyrics are NSFW)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=leyu6OWhGg4

**** only hits the fan if you're dishonest or if you date crazy women.

**** only hits the fan if you're dishonest or if you date crazy women.

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if you date crazy women.
wait wait wait, some aren't crazy?

Have never tried to "juggle" more than one at at time, as I would not like to be on the other end of the juggling.

That's good advice jsharr.

hopefully you don't knock up two at once... that would royally suck.

hopefully you don't knock up two at once... that would royally suck.

I knew a guy who simultaneously knocked up:
- Two single chicks
- His wife

^Shawn Kemp?

I knew a guy who simultaneously knocked up:
- Two single chicks
- His wife

Alimony + 3 child support payments. A box of condoms is less than $10.

^Shawn Kemp?

I'm talking about a guy, (and one of the girls), who I knew personally.
I never heard of Shawn Kemp, so I googled him, and ironically, he is from the same city as the guy I knew.

I knew a guy who simultaneously knocked up:
- Two single chicks
- His wife

potent dude

Absolutely not but you misinterpreted my words. Living alone is a great thing but to have lifelong loneliness is not.

Perhaps, but I believe lifelong loneliness is the result of poor self-esteem. Having a friend with benefits (or two or three) won't cause that.

Perhaps, but I believe lifelong loneliness is the result of poor self-esteem. Having a friend with benefits (or two or three) won't cause that.

In general, I would have to disagree with you here. All the people I've known that did the FWB thing appeared very confident on the outside. In fact, you could chip away a layer and get to know them more personally, and they would still appear confident. Chip away another layer, you still see confidence. But go far enough, get to the core even, and you'll see something very different. All that "self-esteem" is mostly an illusion that they hope people will never see through.

I'm talking about a guy, (and one of the girls), who I knew personally.
I never heard of Shawn Kemp, so I googled him, and ironically, he is from the same city as the guy I knew.

your friend is from elkhart? so's my wife. her friend used to work at the tasty freeze in high school and shawn kemp would drive up in his tiny (at least for him) convertible with his knees up by his chin and try and hit on all the girls who worked there.

I knew a guy who simultaneously knocked up:
- Two single chicks
- His wife
did they all lie and say they were on birth control

When I was single I could date as many women as I damned well pleased, as long as I didn't sleep with them. For me, it wasn't right to be in a sexual relationship with more than one person.