Well it was my mistake (surprise surprise)
Alzonder, thank you for pointing that mistake out, it is over, over THEN under.
The big issue was that I was connecting the "laced" spokes at too shallow of an angle. They needed to be one group further away than I was putting it. What threw me off was that to get it to its proper position like it is now, the spoke has to lay a good bit on top of the flange. I figure this must be how its supposed to be, just because the flange is so huge.
So here she is all done, yay first wheel