What silly advice! "I'm don't know what I'm talking about, but here's what you should do."
What's even sillier is that the advice seems to have been taken (judging by the list above). There is no need to spend the money for Park or Pedro's when the same tools can be had in acceptable quality for much less.
ThreLittleBirds, the current kits you list are for 10-speed and will have tools you don't need, and some you will. Look around a bit more (also, try the Search function here - there are pages and pages about tool sets) and see if you can find a 9-speed set that will have BB tools (esp. crank puller and 8mm wrench) you can use. The Park #2 pin spanner is good for the dust caps, but a long-nose pliers will work and probably already have those. Or drive two nails through a board.
Forget the fancy grease. Go to your local auto parts store and get a tub of axle or marine grease for $4.