I thought about posting in the other birthday thread since it was the day I got my daughters and met Gina 4 yeas later but the not my daughter posted on my FB page today is just too much of a gift I wanted to post it!
After a 4 year battle, lots of hate, anger, and dealing with the ex involved in drugs and booze, I wished the ex dead, didn't happen! She did try suicide about 10 years ago.
Let's say after the ex screwed herself tyring to milk me for money through fraud with the DA's office, she dumped the girls off with me. Only took a month as my Mom predicted.
But the battle continued. I met Gina 4 years later, she loved the girls like her own and the ex vanished into her world of parties. Years go by, she shows up wanting to be friends with the girls. Standing them up for birthdays, lying to them, arrested here and there, the girls caught on.
Later in life, girls have kids of their own. Ex lies to their kids, stands them up on birthdays and presents etc. Now my daughters have to deal with her. They see what kind of canniving scum bag that she is! Yes, she is the sweetest thing when you talk to her but just wait!
So my daughtes try to deal with her to rebuild a relationship with Mom. Please let me take the baby for the night. Dumb beotch takes the 2 year old granddaughter to the market and gets arrested for shop lifting! WTF! My daughter has to drive an hour to pickup her 2 year old daughter who is standing on the side of the road with a 14 yo girl in the cold after cops impound the car and arrest grandma!
Few more years go by, she tries suicide but fails, figures. So the girls once again give her another chance after all the Bible talk. again the madness continues. Now to the point where neither one of the two girls wants anything to do with their mother. Haven't spoke with her in years. Neither wants to see her and deny all grandkid visit requests.
No birthday parties, Christmas, BBQ's, Thankgiving, nothing!
After years of wanting the beotch dead I actually feel sorry for her now. At one time was a knockout but now looking like a bag lady, very sad thing! Biggest sad thing is that she is missing out on the grandkids adn my girls call Gina their Mom.
All the years of fighting druggy Mom have paid off. I sit back and see how easy my life is now while collecting gifts from my daughters, love, friendship, grandkids, watching them play ball and lots of BBQ's and family get togethers.
These are the kinds of gifts the druggy ex will never receive at Christmas time. Posted on my FB page. My girls have a half sister(poor girl) that reads their postings so druggy ex sees them.
Me, if I die today, I will go a happy man!
Post from one of my daughters:
Getting ready to leave for Cali and I'm so excited to see everyone!!!! The holidays really remind you what's important and I'm glad I get to make it to Cali this year. I always assume you already know, but I love you SO much no matter how much you tease me :-) lol. I'm so fortunate that you didn't leave us when mom left. You could have had it so easy but you stuck around. I wouldn't be as strong as I am today without the people who raised me. I love you xoxo
My daughter (posted the message) and granddaughter
My other daugher and My Mom