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    Quote Originally Posted by TrojanHorse View Post
    This happened to me last year, I was riding up a short but steep hill with my son
    Driveway again?

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    ... I assumed bad.
    With age the hearing goes, trust me

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    You and @eja_ bottecchia are out in front (ahem) but I find that as I get older I care less and less what other people think. Part of it is being comfortable with who you are of course.
    My give a damn has been busted for a long time.

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    You're not fat anymore you skinny ba*W@&^rd.
    Be easy on the kid. They have metabolism on their side... for now.

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    Ive had many a comment on my biking travels. Most screamed as they zoom by in their trucks. Ive had cars come over the center-line towards me, Ive had cars scream at me and then wait by the side of the road a 1/4 mile ahead. I really am quite amazed how angry and offensive people can be. I never instigate anything nor do I ride against the road rules. I'm just a fat cyclist and for some people thats too much to stand.
    I think fat-people are the last safe group to be prejudice against in public.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TrojanHorse View Post
    This happened to me last year, I was riding up a short but steep hill with my son... Some guy leaned out the window of his panel van and yelled something, I assumed bad. My son (he was directing it at my son) said he said "You can do it!"
    Based on where it was (a popular bike route) I only assume the guy in the truck was a cyclist himself and could see me pushing it a bit...

    I say ignore the "looks" and just realize your probably more dedicated than them
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    Quote Originally Posted by TK LP View Post
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    I get to ride with a small group of people every so often. There's this one clown that rides with us who makes comments about my bike, how slow I am, etc. I've learned to ignore him, though. Actually, I use it as motivation. I figure the faster I ride, the sooner I'll get to the top where he'll no doubt have been for quite a while and be well rested, and once I regain consciousness, I think about how I'd kick TrojanHorse's his ass.

    OK, in all seriousness, I did two rides while on chemo. On the first one, two idiots from the local snobby club passed me and made comments "to each other" loud enough that they wanted me to hear them. One said something about me being Lance Armstrong in my kit. OK, old mountain bike, riding really slowly and obviously not looking strong, I can see his point. Then the other said, "Yah, and he shaves his legs, too!". I just chuckled thinking, It's a beautiful day. I'm out riding. AND I DON'T HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE BEING THEM!!!!! What a relief that was!
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    I am more than ready for the resolutions to wear off also. No parkings spaces at the gym. Did 4 roundy rounds last night and ended up in a no parking zone.(someone else parked there and left) I almost went home, glad I didnt as I was doing weight workout and everyone was doing cardio pretty much. Actually got my routine done pretty quickly.I am a gray haired almost 59 y/o who is also over 200 still and I think the 20 somethings dont think I am serious.Tired of people doing a set and then sitting there on the equipment while checking there phone or texting or girls redoing their ponytail for the 5th time.I finally got my DH to join but I know he is totally frustrated with the crowds

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    Quote Originally Posted by eja_ bottecchia View Post
    I thought the quote was: "Life is too short to drink cheap Scotch!"

    One of my engineering professors, Karl, from Stuttgart, had a bumper sticker on his Golf that read "Life is Too Short to Drink Cheap Beer".
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhotoJoe View Post
    I get to ride with a small group of people every so often. There's this one clown that rides with us who makes comments about my bike, how slow I am, etc. I've learned to ignore him, though. Actually, I use it as motivation. I figure the faster I ride, the sooner I'll get to the top where he'll no doubt have been for quite a while and be well rested, and once I regain consciousness, I think about how I'd kick TrojanHorse's his ass.
    I see what you did there. You, um, actually pedal that thing lately?

    Quote Originally Posted by PhotoJoe View Post
    OK, in all seriousness, I did two rides while on chemo. On the first one, two idiots from the local snobby club passed me and made comments "to each other" loud enough that they wanted me to hear them. One said something about me being Lance Armstrong in my kit. OK, old mountain bike, riding really slowly and obviously not looking strong, I can see his point. Then the other said, "Yah, and he shaves his legs, too!". I just chuckled thinking, It's a beautiful day. I'm out riding. AND I DON'T HAVE TO GO THROUGH LIFE BEING THEM!!!!! What a relief that was!
    What a commentary on why people shouldn't be so judgmental. Wow.

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    You're not fat. You're big boned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darth Lefty View Post
    Every gym has...
    1. the gym rats who don't care much what you think of them and vice versa
    2. the jocks who want to win at everything and see you as a loser
    3. the fitness resolution people, especially this time of year

    If a guy has his kid at the gym he is probably #2 , they want their kids to beat other kids too. Ask him how his ACL surgery went, they've all had one
    THIS!!!

    and #2 is kinda pathetic... At least I think so....

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    Quote Originally Posted by jsigone View Post
    I turn up the IPOD and get in my zone & hammer out what the day calls for, drink a recovery shake on the way home and repeat next day.
    That's 'cause you can drop 'em like a bad habit... But what about the rest of us mere mortals?? Lol!!

    Seriously, though, it's tough not to let it bother you--I know first hand. But the outcome is in our hands, and we're out there doing it instead of just wishing we were. So crank up the iPod, imagine yourself talking to that hot chick, and get your mojo on!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Erwin8r View Post
    So crank up the iPod, imagine yourself talking to that hot chick, and get your mojo on!
    Erwin8r,
    This is great advice except the part about imagining talking to a hot chick.....if I do that, my workout would be cut short due to a serious case of muscle stiffness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cycle Babble View Post
    Erwin8r,
    This is great advice except the part about imagining talking to a hot chick.....if I do that, my workout would be cut short due to a serious case of muscle stiffness.

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    So far I've only had compliments, but I've got a white beard and that gets smiles. In a race two years ago I was on an uphill portion (that resulted in a minor stroke when I got to the top!) and I was being rapidly passed by a young gal who smiled and said, "good going old man!" with a big smile. I felt a bit bad after I kicked out and sent her to the ground but it was just a gut reaction. Just kidding. I laughed a bit but didn't have enough breathe to reply. That race ended any question as to whether I'd make a real effort... I'm sure some of us 'feel' we are being badly judged when we aren't but there's nothing much to be done about rude comments other than to use them to help us redouble our effort to get healthier, fitter and faster.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IAMAMRA View Post
    And your dirty looks at the gym only make me push harder! Had some looks and whispers at the gym last night, but they were gone before I was done with my workout(two hours of cardio).

    Anyone else deal with this?
    And they're mean.
    You can lose weight...
    Can they be nice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nymtber View Post
    I've had people yell stuff out car windows, but never could understand them. Except ONE guy. Guess what he said?

    "Keep it up your doing great!" As I was climbing a pretty steep but not horribly long hill down near the lake.

    Gyms? Nope I'd have to drive 20-25 minutes out of my way. With gas at $3.65/gallon, NO THANKS. I have an exercise bike and "total gym pro" in the basement. No one gives me funny looks. But I do see the looks when I am out on my road bike. Whatever, You keep sitting in your car driving everywhere and eating whoppers and I'll keep riding my bike and eating somewhat healthy. See who lives longer and is happier
    Sorry, but IMO you have completely the wrong attitude about this. It is evident that you do care what people yell by what you have written, and that's ok. Own it. We are a social animal. I admit, positive reinforcement would feel better, but you can use negative energy to push yourself to your goals as well. Obviously at some time in the past you weren't quite as disciplined as you are at present? So why hate on the whopper eaters? That's hypocrisy. I also have to say... as a weight loss strategy street biking sucks. Rocks. it's too efficient and too environment limited both at the same time. If you are losing weight, its because of other positive changes you have made in your lifestyle. Cardio that will actually melt the fat off? Well running is probably number one, even urban running, but its high impact. Ouch! Elliptical? Rower? Exercise bike? All better because you can dial in a certain amount of resistance AND you can slog away at your workout without worrying about traffic lights, cross traffic, pedestrians, low flying aircraft... FWIW

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    Quote Originally Posted by Leisesturm View Post
    Sorry, but IMO you have completely the wrong attitude about this. It is evident that you do care what people yell by what you have written, and that's ok. Own it. We are a social animal. I admit, positive reinforcement would feel better, but you can use negative energy to push yourself to your goals as well. Obviously at some time in the past you weren't quite as disciplined as you are at present? So why hate on the whopper eaters? That's hypocrisy. I also have to say... as a weight loss strategy street biking sucks. Rocks. it's too efficient and too environment limited both at the same time. If you are losing weight, its because of other positive changes you have made in your lifestyle. Cardio that will actually melt the fat off? Well running is probably number one, even urban running, but its high impact. Ouch! Elliptical? Rower? Exercise bike? All better because you can dial in a certain amount of resistance AND you can slog away at your workout without worrying about traffic lights, cross traffic, pedestrians, low flying aircraft... FWIW

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    attitude advice is good, but not the weight loss.

    Studies show long duration (>3 hours) cardio is best at fat loss, especially visceral fat. Short duration steady state cardio that most associate with the machines you mention the least effective.

    We are not simple machines where simple calorie math determines outcome. We are complex systems which seek stability at set points. Hormone response is profoundly important in metabolism and weight. Different activities have different hormonal responses.

    Real world examples of this abound on this site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cycle Babble View Post
    I belong to Planet Fitness as well and even though they say the gym is a 'No Judgement Zone' when people look at you....you know they have to be thinking something (At least I do). I simply do not let it bother me. I just think of all the overweight folks out there who do nothing about their health an realize I am one step ahead of them.

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    I would suggest you've already let it distract you by feeling the need to formulate a response. Don't let it get to that point or find a quieter time to work out, or figure out why you want to be in the gym in the first place.

    In my younger years I spent a lot of time working in "health clubs" and eventually found too much overlap between the scenes there and what I saw in the bars/clubs. In the winter I go to the Y a couple times a week for group spin sessions, a truly no-judgement zone and otherwise I can be found on the back roads, by myself, alone with my ambitions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChuckD6421 View Post
    I would suggest you've already let it distract you by feeling the need to formulate a response. Don't let it get to that point or find a quieter time to work out, or figure out why you want to be in the gym in the first place.

    In my younger years I spent a lot of time working in "health clubs" and eventually found too much overlap between the scenes there and what I saw in the bars/clubs. In the winter I go to the Y a couple times a week for group spin sessions, a truly no-judgement zone and otherwise I can be found on the back roads, by myself, alone with my ambitions.
    Exactly.

    In fact, the people I work with who workout a lot, are usually the party folks... Guess you have to work off all those empty calories!
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    Quote Originally Posted by nanners1955 View Post
    I am more than ready for the resolutions to wear off also. No parkings spaces at the gym. Did 4 roundy rounds last night and ended up in a no parking zone.(someone else parked there and left) I almost went home, glad I didnt as I was doing weight workout and everyone was doing cardio pretty much. Actually got my routine done pretty quickly.I am a gray haired almost 59 y/o who is also over 200 still and I think the 20 somethings dont think I am serious.Tired of people doing a set and then sitting there on the equipment while checking there phone or texting or girls redoing their ponytail for the 5th time.I finally got my DH to join but I know he is totally frustrated with the crowds

    Ah, resolutionists...

    The sweetest thing happened to my 13 year old Daughter last month.

    She was lifting on one type of machines (I on a different type)... A 20-something male resolutionist, camped on a machine she went to another machine. When done, he was still on the phone. She stands there a while, waiting, waiting... Still he camps.

    One of the regulars I know by sight and say "hey" to... OBTW, he's not tall but he's HUUUGE... Walks over to the camper, Says in a convincing voice... "Excuse me"... The camper bails rapidly. He smiles at my daughter and goes back to his workout...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Null66 View Post
    Ah, resolutionists...

    The sweetest thing happened to my 13 year old Daughter last month.

    She was lifting on one type of machines (I on a different type)... A 20-something male resolutionist, camped on a machine she went to another machine. When done, he was still on the phone. She stands there a while, waiting, waiting... Still he camps.

    One of the regulars I know by sight and say "hey" to... OBTW, he's not tall but he's HUUUGE... Walks over to the camper, Says in a convincing voice... "Excuse me"... The camper bails rapidly. He smiles at my daughter and goes back to his workout...
    Awww that is so awesome!

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    There is a guy at my gym who fit the definition of 'HUUUGE'. One day I walked up to him and said, "When you feel up to it, I would be willing to do a shoulder workout with you." He looked at me and smiled "Sure." Well that workout has not yet happened, but we say hi to each other when we pass by. It is nice to have a few of those big guys on your side in case you need them.

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