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KenshiBiker 11-21-13 02:18 PM

Why'd She SayThat?
 
On my way home last night, about 6:30 I was coming up on an intersection, I noticed a car waiting at the stop sign. I briefly glanced at it to so my helmet light would get the driver's attention. After rolling past the intersection, I noticed the car turned in my direction. As the car pulled past me, the driver (I think it was the driver, though it could have been a passenger - there was a big dog hanging out the back window, so I didn't get a good look at the passenger side) yelled out "Good Job!" The tone was truly complimentary, so I don't think it was meant to be sarcastic. I've been trying to figure out why she (definitely a woman's voice) said it (or anything). Couple of theories:
  • This was the first rain of the season and I was decked out in full rain jacket and pants and she was happy to see anyone out riding.
  • When I ride at night I'm lit up pretty well (Niterider Lumina 650 on bars, Dinotte XML-3 on helmet, NR Solas on back of trunk bag, NR Solas on back of jacket, Dinotte XML-3 on left seat stay, cheap blinky on left wrist, reflective vest, reflective bands on ankles, etc.) - maybe she was happy I made it easy for her to see a bicycle was approaching.
  • Maybe she was being sacrastic, or talking to her dog

I guess I'll never know. I think I'll dismiss the third possibility and go on assuming it was one of the first two. At any rate, it gave me a good feeling knowing I was doing something right (even if I didn't know what it was).

I realize no one else here has any way to know that particular woman's motivation for yelling out at me, but I just felt like posting this.

Ride safe,

KB

DunderXIII 11-21-13 02:27 PM

It happened to me once too; at a stop light taking the full left lane for a left turn at night. Had NR Minewt2 lights and a Superflash at the back. I'm pretty sure it wasn't sarcastic either. That's because my behavior was predictable and I was very easy to spot.

That's better than most ninja bikes and makes it a lot easier for drivers to know what to expect.

As a driver I sometimes feel like I should Kudos those who really know how to bike in traffic.

So my personal opinion: it was probable genuine. Take it like that, you did a good job :)

ThermionicScott 11-21-13 02:33 PM

I usually can't understand what people yell at me from their cars (thankfully it doesn't happen often), so I just interpret it as "I see you! Keep up the good work!" :thumb:

CbadRider 11-21-13 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DunderXIII (Post 16266424)
It happened to me once too; at a stop light taking the full left lane for a left turn at night. Had NR Minewt2 lights and a Superflash at the back. I'm pretty sure it wasn't sarcastic either. That's because my behavior was predictable and I was very easy to spot.

That's better than most ninja bikes and makes it a lot easier for drivers to know what to expect.

As a driver I sometimes feel like I should Kudos those who really know how to bike in traffic.

So my personal opinion: it was probable genuine. Take it like that, you did a good job :)


+1

Maybe she is also a cyclist and wanted to yell something nice.

alan s 11-21-13 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KenshiBiker (Post 16266394)
...talking to her dog

This. The dog's name was Job.

Slaninar 11-21-13 02:58 PM

She wanted to get laid. :)

FBinNY 11-21-13 03:06 PM

I don't see the problem. Maybe she was a fellow cyclist complementing you for whatever reason. As you point out the tone wasn't sarcastic.

Accept the compliment in the spirit it was given, enjoy the moment and stop looking a gift horse in the mouth.

BTW- I often do the opposite. When a motorist or truck driver is unusually patient behind me, or otherwise extra courteous and I catch back up at a light, I'll often thank them for the courtesy shown. I want drivers to know that their good acts are appreciated.

westrid_dad 11-21-13 03:07 PM

Something similar for me happened last week. I was biking home at night after work and was at an intersection waiting for the light to turn. A car rolled up next to me and both the driver and the passenger were telling me how much they appreciated me being a "responsible" cyclist, and wanted to know where I got my lights and reflective gear. We exchanged some idle chit-chat waiting for the light. The passenger again thanked me as we both started to advance with the green light. And that's when the driver cut me off, turning right in front of me at the light. Oh, well... :lol:

FBinNY 11-21-13 03:10 PM

Life would be so boring without it's little ironies.

acidfast7 11-21-13 03:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Slaninar (Post 16266527)
She wanted to get laid. :)

agree! OP should've chatted with driver.

KenshiBiker 11-21-13 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alan s (Post 16266495)
This. The dog's name was Job.

Excellent! I hadn't thought of that one.

wphamilton 11-21-13 03:54 PM

See rule 16 of the Commutinati "Cheers, are sincere expressions of respect and admiration for the commuter personally and should be returned with a casually deliberate wave."

JReade 11-22-13 07:31 AM

I merged over to the left turn lane one day, and it was red. First car to the straight lane said will all seriousness, "Thanks for using hand signals, it really helps in traffic!" we had a conversation about bike safety in traffic and how he's all about bikes as transportation, etc.

Jim from Boston 11-22-13 07:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wphamilton (Post 16266697)
See rule 16 of the Commutinati "Cheers, are sincere expressions of respect and admiration for the commuter personally and should be returned with a casually deliberate wave."

I've been called a "Saint" at work for my cycle commuting; personally I think of myself as a "Road Warrior." :D

cooker 11-22-13 08:13 AM

She was complimenting you either for stopping or for having good lighting. A lot of cyclists don't.

BobbyG 11-22-13 08:35 AM

She may have been admiring and commenting on your physique.

bmontgomery87 11-22-13 08:47 AM

hahaha

Similar thing happened to me one day after climbing a hill.
It was puzzling but felt nice to have someone be nice instead of honking or being hateful

tarwheel 11-22-13 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cooker (Post 16268339)
She was complimenting you either for stopping or for having good lighting. A lot of cyclists don't.

this

spivonious 11-22-13 11:23 AM

I bet it was your lights. I see way too many poorly-lit cyclists out at night.

mjw16 11-22-13 01:45 PM

That's what she said.

Can't believe I was the first to think of it.

Classic.

burns 11-22-13 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BobbyG (Post 16268409)
She may have been admiring and commenting on your physique.

I agree. There were ten inches of his dick trying to escape his Spandex-trousers. Good job!

Hans :)

FBinNY 11-22-13 02:43 PM

I think it's safe to say that this thread has drifted about as far afield as the Mods will allow.

rumrunn6 11-22-13 03:24 PM

is that what she said, or is that what you heard?

ksisler 11-22-13 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KenshiBiker (Post 16266394)
On my way home last night, about 6:30 I was coming up on an intersection, I noticed a car waiting at the stop sign. I briefly glanced at it to so my helmet light would get the driver's attention. After rolling past the intersection, I noticed the car turned in my direction. As the car pulled past me, the driver (I think it was the driver, though it could have been a passenger - there was a big dog hanging out the back window, so I didn't get a good look at the passenger side) yelled out "Good Job!" The tone was truly complimentary, so I don't think it was meant to be sarcastic. I've been trying to figure out why she (definitely a woman's voice) said it (or anything). Couple of theories:
  • This was the first rain of the season and I was decked out in full rain jacket and pants and she was happy to see anyone out riding.
  • When I ride at night I'm lit up pretty well (Niterider Lumina 650 on bars, Dinotte XML-3 on helmet, NR Solas on back of trunk bag, NR Solas on back of jacket, Dinotte XML-3 on left seat stay, cheap blinky on left wrist, reflective vest, reflective bands on ankles, etc.) - maybe she was happy I made it easy for her to see a bicycle was approaching.
  • Maybe she was being sacrastic, or talking to her dog

I guess I'll never know. I think I'll dismiss the third possibility and go on assuming it was one of the first two. At any rate, it gave me a good feeling knowing I was doing something right (even if I didn't know what it was).

I realize no one else here has any way to know that particular woman's motivation for yelling out at me, but I just felt like posting this.

Ride safe,

KB

4) It always makes her happy to see the first Christmas tree of the season. Congrats for making her smile!

Or it could have been something else. Who knows.

old's'cool 11-22-13 08:32 PM

So, let me get this straight... you flashed ;) her, she said "good job!", and... what was your question?!!!! :D


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