This is a little off the subject but I want to find out from all the men out there how to get my husband to go to the doctor to get a yearly checkup. He is 53, very physically active, riding his bike 4 days a week, going to the gym 3 days a week and he eats pretty good, but could improve some. I want to know how to get to his soft underbelly and convince him going to the doctor once a year for more then just a blood test won't kill him, but possibily NOT going will do him more harm then good. I know I'm not a great fan of going to the doctor but I endure most of the tests and know I'm keeping myself healthy for my husband. So what is the secret?