Thanks to everyone who wished me well in this thread here:
So here's the update. Got the ok to wean myself off of the neck brace last week. Saturday (11 wks after the accident), I got out for an easy 13 mile ride (and kept the wheels on the ground this time). I'm a little worse for the wear, but will heal. The weather's just starting to turn crappy here, so more of the riding will probably be on my trainer than outside, but it's nice to be riding again.
The bike lived as well. Frame's ok. I pulled off the carbon fork and checked it as thoroughly as I can. It looks ok as well. I loosened the spokes on the very pretzeled front wheel and did a rough truing with a couple of 4x6's and all my body weight. Put it on my truing stand and got it to within 2 mm or so. The back wheel was no big deal. I will need to replace the wheels as the braking is a little rough to say the least, but they're rideable for now. I did have to replace the bar tape...the bar looks ok. So I did a real good job of protecting the bike with my body, I guess