I am a very close freind of a very attractive girl whom I really, really like and have been contemplating asking her out. But when we were talking on the phone somehow me and her going out became a topic. I just stayed quiet and heard what she had to say. She said she doesn't go out with anybody she has known for over 5 months (she finds it strange somehow)...I have known her for a year(****!!) I have no trouble with girls but I jsut can't devise a way around this. HELP ME!!