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    I want to surprise my GF, but I'm a little nervous

    Earlier this year my GF and I had planned a pretty long vacation for this summer, but things happened and it's not feasible anymore. Well, it turns out that we both have 3 free days next week and I want to go on a mini-vacation.

    She's been away for a couple weeks dealing with some family stuff, but she's coming back tomorrow. I've been planning without her knowing about it (never really told her because I didn't think an opportunity would come up like it did), and this means I can just surprise her about it.

    I have these grand ideas of just waking her up in the morning and telling her to pack a suitcase. Then I was thinking, "Well...maybe she needs more time to pack," so I wimped those ideas down to telling her the night before. But once I tell her we're going somewhere she'll probably be able to get me to tell her where we're going, which may or may not matter because she'd find out once we got to the airport anyway.

    Is it a good idea to surprise someone like that? I mean, what if something comes up? What if she doesn't want to go? I wouldn't want to waste a lot of energy and money. But then again, I really do want to surprise her, because I plan on proposing to her during the trip and the proposal itself won't be much of a surprise, so I at least want something to be a surprise.

    Should I go for the extreme surprise? Anyone ever done this?

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    Your girlfriend liked it quite a lot when I gave her the extreme surprise.
    Falling down is not exercising.

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    Surprise her at the onset. Tell her that you want to take her away for the weekend, but give her a day or so (if you can) to get ready. I think you are smart to consider the side effects of just hauling butt outta town. Life isn't like that. She will probably need to make some arangements for whatever (feeding of animals, telling her girlfriends, and of course, going shopping for the trip.) Sometimes, getting ready for the trip is part of the fun.
    Madness takes its toll. Please have exact change.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brokenrobot
    Your girlfriend liked it quite a lot when I gave her the extreme surprise.
    Welcome to foo, ahole.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NoF3ar
    Welcome to foo, ahole.
    Thanks, jackass! (I've been here for years - just rarely post in foo)
    Falling down is not exercising.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brokenrobot
    Thanks, jackass! (I've been here for years - just rarely post in foo)
    Obviously, you've proven to be the jackass.

    Too, the op. I would say, go with the surprise. Some woman love spontaneity, obviously you know your gf do you think she would enjoy a surprise?

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    Quote Originally Posted by NoF3ar
    Obviously, you've proven to be the jackass.
    THAT'S no way to make friends!

    Oh, and I almost forgot - the jerk store called; they're out of you.
    Falling down is not exercising.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brokenrobot
    THAT'S no way to make friends!

    Oh, and I almost forgot - the jerk store called; they're out of you.
    For the sake of mankind please grow some brain cells. Then, maybe you can think of a better comeback. Until then please gouge your eyes out and stick your hand in a toaster.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NoF3ar
    Until then please gouge your eyes out and stick your hand in a toaster.
    I completed step one, but now I can't see to find a toaster. Help!
    Falling down is not exercising.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LSPlo
    Earlier this year my GF and I had planned a pretty long vacation for this summer, but things happened and it's not feasible anymore. Well, it turns out that we both have 3 free days next week and I want to go on a mini-vacation.

    She's been away for a couple weeks dealing with some family stuff, but she's coming back tomorrow. I've been planning without her knowing about it (never really told her because I didn't think an opportunity would come up like it did), and this means I can just surprise her about it.

    I have these grand ideas of just waking her up in the morning and telling her to pack a suitcase. Then I was thinking, "Well...maybe she needs more time to pack," so I wimped those ideas down to telling her the night before. But once I tell her we're going somewhere she'll probably be able to get me to tell her where we're going, which may or may not matter because she'd find out once we got to the airport anyway.

    Is it a good idea to surprise someone like that? I mean, what if something comes up? What if she doesn't want to go? I wouldn't want to waste a lot of energy and money. But then again, I really do want to surprise her, because I plan on proposing to her during the trip and the proposal itself won't be much of a surprise, so I at least want something to be a surprise.

    Should I go for the extreme surprise? Anyone ever done this?
    IMO, only YOU can intuit what the right approach is to this with her, but it is very cool of you to want to surprise her and make her happy. On the other hand, even if you don't get it "just right", if you obviously take a great deal of care in both wanting to give her a nice surprise AND respecting her autonomy, she'll appreciate it. The marriage proposal might help too...

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    Take her to the city, find a S&M club. That will surprise the crap out of her... and you'll enjoy it too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stacey
    Take her to the city, find a S&M club. That will surprise the crap out of her... and you'll enjoy it too


























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    Quote Originally Posted by brokenrobot
    the jerk store called; they're out of you.
    That doesn't matter cause you're their all time best seller.. and I slept with your wife!

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    I would say tell her. Unless the 2 of you are lucky enough not to have work or anything and she's got the next 3 days off. Otherwise, you might just get hit with the ol, "oh that'll be great to go away for 3 days but I have to go to a funeral in romania tomorrow."

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    This thread is a lovely combination of heartfelt romance, and locker room ass-smackery.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slvoid
    I slept with your wife!
    His wife is in a Coma.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boogs
    This thread is a lovely combination of heartfelt romance, and locker room ass-smackery.

    I think that for some, those are the same.....
    Madness takes its toll. Please have exact change.

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    Quote Originally Posted by free_pizza
    His wife is in a Coma.
    That's true, but not funny.
    Falling down is not exercising.

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    Girlfriend = Surprise her and go for it.

    Wife = No surprises, suggest the trip as an action item during the next budget planning meeting.
    just a sig test !

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