Okay so I've made up my mind about some big decisions regarding my future. I've started to get everything in order to make this successful. I'm very picky about details so I'm giving this a year to pan out, making sure all my bases are covered. I had accidentally let my plans slip to someone who WAS important to me but now, this person is all of a sudden trying to talk me out of this once he realized that I am serious. What is up with that? Why do people that you see on an almost daily basis treat you regular but then now really want to get involved once it doesn't include them?