A childhood friend of my boyfriend is getting married in a month and we are not for it at all. The sucky part is that my boyfriend is the BESTMAN. Last week we got a call from the Groom saying the wedding is off, we have been talking to him all week. Giving our opinions etc. Well today the wedding is back on!!
Here is the situation. He met this girl Nov-Dec last year, he moves her into his HOUSE with her two boys from a previous marriage in January. I met her once briefly and it wasn't enough time to really say what kind of person she is.
We boyfriend and I are in Florida for vacation in June and friend calls to tell us that he is engaged. SHE ASKED HIM and that the wedding will be in September.
Now both boyfriend and I think she wants a sugar daddy. He owes his own business etc.
We both told him that he needs to REALLY think about what he wants. I will say he wants to be a husband, daddy etc, but we think this marriage is DOOM from the start. Now my boyfriend has expressed his feelings with much respect to the friend, the friend wants to proceed with the marriage.
I met the girl and I thought I was bossy she blows me out of the water.
So, here we are a month from the wedding and both bf and I have reservations about the marriage. I do wish them well but YIKES there are kids involved now.
Why do people have to rush the marriage thing??
How do you feel on this kind of subject??