Thanks to those of you who gave some very helpful replies in my "What am I going to do, Karma awarded for good suggestions" thread!
She has really lost it. On monday, she comes into my class and tells me she needs to talk to me. (This is my ex girlfriend for those who are not in tune). THis is the first time she has spoken to me in 3 weeks, and by now I was really getting over her. I now realize this is the best for me, and my life feels less stresful. I, feel healthier. But anyways, she tells me "My friends told me to not even tell you about this and leave, or leave a note and that is all, but after 2.75 years of putting up with me I thought you deserved to know, I am moving to Arkansas. I have a train ticket for wednesday".
I am stunned. I know a it about this however. She is involved in yahoo groups, fanfiction, she is an excellent writer. She met some guy several months ago who is supposedly a screen writer. So they have been talking, I never really thought much of it. He did mention that if she wants to live with him after highschool and go to COllege in Arkansas, he will not charge her rent or anything.
So I tell her okay, thats her choice. SHe says "have a nice life" and walks off. I knew she was trying to escape, and is thinking that a new world in Arkansas will be much better than here in NH. So yes I am a bit concerned, I've still not completely gotten over her. I get a call tuesday evening from her parents asking if I know anything about where she is. Meanwhile, a teacher of mine who was also a teacher of hers, who is what you might say a friend of mine as well, asked about her. I told her about her Arkansas plan, she was shocked. She apparently contacts the police, who do a little investigating.
The parents call me, and tell me the results. This guy is 56 years old, single, lives in the Ozarks of Arkansas. THe town is green Forest. Also, the police went to the address this guy gave...
Unless he lives in a tree house, there was nothing there.
I guess that tuesday night her parents went to track her down, and her father did find her. BUt she was ranting and screaming about how she needs to escape this world, and how horrible I am (which I guess is a large contributor of her reason to go). Little does she know what awaits her....
I do feel a bit uneasy about this