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    1/2 man,1/2 bear,1/2 pig ManBearPig's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    I went on two first dates with (obviously) 2 different women this past week. both women were very eligible bachelorettes, but one girl really stands out among all other girls i have dated in the past. she has a certain way about her that i find very appealing. i had been communicating with her all thru Xmas and finally had the chance to meet. however, it has only been one date, and it's specifically because i like her that i don't want to scare her off.

    soooo....how much should i reveal to her about my thoughts about her?
    Don't show all of your self at once, just give her bits and pieces.
    Tropical pole vaulting is the shiznit.

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    ...But tell us EVERYTHING!!
    Why isn't 11 pronounced onety one?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Gear Jammer
    just give her bits and pieces.
    show her the bits first though.

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    Well, first of all don't reveal that you are dating two different women.
    Why isn't 11 pronounced onety one?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    OK, I realize this topic and question lends itself to all sorts of funny response...which I appreciate, don't get me wrong...but I hope to find some genuine insight here as well. if i can't count on Foo, who can I count on?
    If you can sort of the facts from the fiction from us you will be fine.
    Tropical pole vaulting is the shiznit.

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    I'd let her know how you truly feel, don't hold anything back.

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    What does your heart tell you?
    Why isn't 11 pronounced onety one?

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    If you want to let her know that she's special, keep asking her out. Time and attention are the best way to tell her. Anyone can say you're special. Someone who means it will show it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lancerob
    Don't get all emotional so soon. Just enjoy yourself and have fun with her. Be a happy moment in her life. If something better becomes of it then fine. But don't worry about eternity so soon. Just be happy with the fact that you are a happy man today.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    i like this advice. if it has the potential i think it has, i dont need to urge it along by getting all emotional and pouring my heart out too quickly.
    Totally right. Take it easy and don't get too anxious. I've learned the hard way that the fastest way to scare someone off is by being too open too soon. Give it time. Let her chase a little bit. It's more exciting for her that way and will keep her interest as you continue to get to know each other.
    If ignorance is bliss, shouldn't you be happy?

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    Don't know how old you are. And I honestly think that this makes a difference. Guys?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    im a young 33; she's a mature 25
    8 years eh?, i have seen people get married and be 10+ years apart in age. So i am not going to say anything negative about that.
    Tropical pole vaulting is the shiznit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    Ordinarily i shoot for later 20s or early 30s. 25 is at the low end of the range, but not out of the question. My experience has been that if age is an issue the lady will take the initiative not to pursue things. I know it sounds cliche, but she's mature for her age. she's unique, not like alotta immature and cocky recent college grads. she's very intellectual and well read, too.
    Great then the advantage goes to you .
    Tropical pole vaulting is the shiznit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    I went on two first dates with (obviously) 2 different women this past week. both women were very eligible bachelorettes, but one girl really stands out among all other girls i have dated in the past. she has a certain way about her that i find very appealing. i had been communicating with her all thru Xmas and finally had the chance to meet. however, it has only been one date, and it's specifically because i like her that i don't want to scare her off.

    soooo....how much should i reveal to her about my thoughts about her?

    1. Provide as much background info as possible (age, sex, location, religion intentions etc if applicable)

    2. General principles

    * ALWAYS communicate FIRST with actions. Women listen to this. The best salesperson in the world CANNOT use words to woo. IT IS THEIR ACTIONS that communicate, words are just the grease.

    * Just have fun. That sends the best message to a woman that you could ever have. If the woman brings up feelings then great but STAY MALE!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    OK, let me ask another way -- should I tell her that she really stands out among every other women i have dated and that she has a certain way about her that i find really appealing? or is it too early to say any more than i enjoyed the date, let's see each other again.

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    SLOW DOWN THERE NELLY. Take it easy and let it flow. It will happen naturally. Focus on you not her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towlie
    im a young 33; she's a mature 25
    I was a mature 25 when my husband won me over.

    If it really feels right for you, continue to see her. Exceptional men or women at this age are rare, apparently....

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    Blowing your load too early is never good in any aspect of Love.

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    do like one of my bros. go back to her place and make out with her on the first date. And then come back *****ing about it.
    Life is about hanging onto what you think is important and finding out what really is important.
    "Stop Ruining my joke!", "No, a joke implies humor attached at no additional cost"
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    Quote Originally Posted by explody pup
    Blowing your load too early is never good in any aspect of Love.
    OMG! I agree with 'Pup!

    But this is all-so-true....

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