OK, put the bats down. No intervention needed. I called the radio station we listen to most and had them wish her a happy 10th Valentines Day on the air. Then I gave her the card. It's 18 inches by 24 inches and has a really romantic theme. Then I wrote quite a bit in it about how special she is to me and how much I love her and our life together. About halfway through reading the card the faucet opened. I know when that happens that I got it right! I hope everyone else is having as good a Valentines Day.