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Old 03-19-07, 11:25 PM   #1
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I have become invisible....have you?

I am not sure when it happened....but it may have been around age 45 for me. That was when I began to develop my current transparency. It's something you don't, or at least I didn't, realize was happening until I had totally un-seeable. There comes a time when you become just an object in a room. Perhaps it begins with people calling you "sir" or "ma'am" for the first time. It can't be the gray hair...heck, George Clooney has gray hair. Perhaps it's a hormonal thing. I remember well into my 40's...members of the opposite sex seemed to be interested in me. I was still young, and still wanted....and then...it happened...transparency...invisibility....It's like I am not even here. Anyone else ever feel that way?
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Old 03-19-07, 11:28 PM   #2
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on second thought...perhaps I should request this thread to be moved to the 50+ Forum...one is safe from botto there...
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Old 03-19-07, 11:28 PM   #3
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did somebody say something?
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Old 03-19-07, 11:29 PM   #4
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I've been told and have noticed I have the ability to 'disappear' in a room if I want. It's what I project - people actually thought I left and came back even though I was sitting just a few feet away for a while.

I also know a few 50+ers who you can't help but notice when they're in a room. They project enough for those half their age so it's not an age thing (at least in my experience).
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Old 03-19-07, 11:35 PM   #6
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Ironically enough, I seem to have developed the opposite effect! I have a covey if 19 and 20 year old girls that literally follow me around at school! Frankly, it makes me very uncomfortable! I'm nearly 30 years older than them!
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Old 03-19-07, 11:36 PM   #7
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Old 03-19-07, 11:36 PM   #8
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I can't be invisible.

I'm too outspoken. I fight for what I believe in and work hard to obtain what I have. I celebrate life's little joys. I give free hugs all the time. I laugh just for the hell of it when I think of someone or someone that made me happy. I am creative. I move quick. I appreciate the gifts that God gives me. I look for the positive...always. My heart dances and my feet move in synch. There is peace within me and love in my life.
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Old 03-19-07, 11:37 PM   #9
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I can't be invisible.

I'm too outspoken. I fight for what I believe in and work hard to obtain what I have. I celebrate life's little joys. I give free hugs all the time. I laugh just for the hell of it when I think of someone that made me happy. I am creative. I move quick. I look for the positive...always. My heart dances and my feet move in synch. There is peace within me and love in my life.

No way I'm gonna be invisible.
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Old 03-19-07, 11:44 PM   #11
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I'm beginning to experience the invisibility, dauph. I bought some more JackBlack at the ABC Store a week ago. No one in the whole store blinked, though I was wearing my PI shorts, and my PI windjacket. <curious Vega look>

And, uh, no one looks at me when I get home, 'cept Vega.
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only a short term problem for you vega, I'm sure.
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Pssbbt! What are you smokin' friend? <curious Vega look> They ain't that many folks who looks with appreciation at the Vega. <serious Vega look>
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nah..I quit smoking anything a while back. I gots eyes.
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Old 03-20-07, 12:05 AM   #15
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I'm beginning to experience the invisibility, dauph. I bought some more JackBlack at the ABC Store a week ago. No one in the whole store blinked, though I was wearing my PI shorts, and my PI windjacket. <curious Vega look>

And, uh, no one looks at me when I get home, 'cept Vega.
I did that too Vega! Its hard to zip up a 5th in my windbreaker. KIndered spirits we are.

At least I get noticed though. On the other hand its usually followed by laughing and snickering
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So, what. You sayin' you see the Vega? <curious Vega look>
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yes..think of me as your invisible friend...<tying two threads together>
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I did that too Vega! Its hard to zip up a 5th in my windbreaker. KIndered spirits we are.

At least I get noticed though. On the other hand its usually followed by laughing and snickering
I really look forward to lunch with you, glenng. <serious Vega look>
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I really look forward to lunch with you, glenng. <serious Vega look>
Me too!
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drinking an entire bottle of wine can make one invisible as well...
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Oh, dauph, didn't see you standin' there.

Seriously. When are you gonna be back in the Hotlanta area? <curious Vega look>
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Oh, dauph, didn't see you standin' there.

Seriously. When are you gonna be back in the Hotlanta area? <curious Vega look>
dunno. I should visit my Mother.
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Way-ul, <sippin' the last of the pinot noir>. Lemme know. mmkay? <serious Vega look>
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pinot noir.....and here I am sipping the last of the sauvignon blanc...(not my fav)
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Actually, the PN has disappeared. I'm drinking cabernet at the moment.

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