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Old 06-22-07, 05:38 PM   #1
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There IS an attraction to...

b*tches. I had a guy friend tell me that yes, there is some sort of weird attraction to women who are b*tches.

Do you other guys feel the same??
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Old 06-22-07, 06:03 PM   #2
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Well, it's not so much the "b|itchy" part that we like, but the other attributes that's coupled closely with the b|tch.

Same example can be made with girls who like "jerks". It's not necessarily the mean selfish assh0le jerk behavior that women are attracted to, but these kind of guys tend to be independent, outspoken, assertive, confident, cocky and funny. Traits that women, in general, are attracted to. It just happens that amongst the group of "jerks", it's more likely that a woman will find these characteristics compared to the average "nice" guy.

So "b|tches" tend to be confident, emotionally secure, maybe even arrogant, sexy, perhaps even trashy, exciting and lots of fun to be with. You kinda gotta take the b|tchy behavior that goes along with the package. With the right atittude though, you can manage the "b|tch" and put them in their place.

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Old 06-22-07, 06:35 PM   #3
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no, not even close.
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Old 06-22-07, 06:36 PM   #4
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no, not even close.
Agreed.

Unfortunately, in today's society, when a very attractive woman goes through life it is easy for her to be predisposed to a certain attitude because of the way people...men, treat her.

Guy's are no different though...we just have different names for them.
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Old 06-22-07, 06:40 PM   #5
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I think Danno nailed it... again.
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Old 06-22-07, 06:40 PM   #6
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b*tches. I had a guy friend tell me that yes, there is some sort of weird attraction to women who are b*tches.

Do you other guys feel the same??
I notice the guys i know are just like that, i have no clue why? it's not something i want.
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Old 06-22-07, 06:47 PM   #7
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i don't mind a little attitude and independence but *****y-ness ain't gonna cut it.


i'll kick anyone to the curb, no matter how hot, for being *****y.
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Old 06-22-07, 06:47 PM   #8
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i just think it is the guys that make them that way
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Old 06-22-07, 06:58 PM   #9
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i don't mind a little attitude and independence but *****y-ness ain't gonna cut it.


i'll kick anyone to the curb, no matter how hot, for being *****y.
I agree 100% man
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Old 06-22-07, 07:12 PM   #10
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No attraction. Give me a sweet, intelligent low maintenance woman. Nevermind, I have one already.
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Old 06-22-07, 07:18 PM   #11
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Nope, no agreement here - my wife is one tough lady and very good looking - but not what you are talking about here.
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Old 06-22-07, 07:22 PM   #12
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There's not much that seems attractive to me in being that way. I really don't care about the opinion of guys - I wouldn't and don't like myself all mean and unkind.
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Old 06-22-07, 07:34 PM   #13
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well, they sure dont attract me much!!!!
it's way easier to be a b**** then being compassionnate and thoughtful.
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Old 06-22-07, 09:47 PM   #14
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With the right atittude though, you can manage the "b|tch" and put them in their place.
Nailed it.
It's so much fun to burn them at their own game.
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Old 06-22-07, 09:48 PM   #15
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i don't mind a little attitude and independence but *****y-ness ain't gonna cut it.


i'll kick anyone to the curb, no matter how hot, for being *****y.

Did someone mention a "Tude"?

ahh, yes a little beotch isn't bad.
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Old 06-22-07, 09:58 PM   #16
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I've always preferred female dogs, they typically aren't as aggressive as males.
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Old 06-22-07, 10:49 PM   #17
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Sorry, not attracted to b!tches even remotely.
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Old 06-22-07, 10:53 PM   #18
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Being able to have an attitude can be amusing, but there's nothing attractive about being stuck in perpetual *****-mode. Just like I wish there was nothing attractive about a guy being stuck in ******* mode.

What's wrong with just being polite and nice? Like we don't have enough bull**** to deal with in the world as it is.
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Old 06-22-07, 11:00 PM   #19
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Well now I know what my problem is.
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Old 06-22-07, 11:04 PM   #20
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Well now I know what my problem is.
Aw come on Siu...how *****y could you possibly be? You do put up with Jon and all.
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Old 06-22-07, 11:04 PM   #21
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No *****es here. I like kind, intelligent women who appreciate the same in a man. It's basically kindergarten logic; anyone who's past 6 years of age understands that you do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Adults seem to want to play silly, complicated games with their emotions and sexuality, and make their relationships nonfunctional and stupid.
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Old 06-23-07, 01:16 AM   #22
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it's way easier to be a b**** then being compassionate and thoughtful.
Well said. Thank you.

The way I see it: for every *****, there is a jerk. In other words: there is someone for everyone. So, if some guys are attracted to that type of gal, and those gals are attracted back, no prob.

I do suspect that those type of entitled chicks tend to crash and burn once their shelf-life (attractiveness) expires. Ditto with the Bad Boys.
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No. freaking. way. b*tches are like kryptonite for me.
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