Let's say that you have been with a gf/bf for a few years and things are going well. You change jobs and you find yourself interacting on a daily basis a coworker that you also find you are very compatible with. So many of the wonderful traits you found in your current gf/bf you are finding in this other person as well and maybe more?!? So what do you do? Do you continue never escalating things above friendship with this coworker/ other and instead focusing on your relationship with your current gf/bf? Do you suttley adjust your daily habits to be more in line with the new person so you can slowly get to know them better and see just how compatible you both are, and still try to maintain a strong relationship with your current other? Or do you give into temptation completely and blatantly spend time with this new comer? Basically to what degree are you willing to jeopardize your current relationship for another potential, and why? What will influence this decision?