and wanting to be friends? Some guys can do it it seems, but it has always bothered me unless I just had zero feelings for the person any more. Just wondering if I'm being an idiot, but I still have feelings for her and am honestly jealous she's dating someone else. I was leaving it alone but she's emailed, called, and even come by once (I wasn't home) after I was laid off from the company we both worked at. She's just concerned about me, which is very sweet in a way, but it definitely makes things tougher than they need to be. Thoughts?