So, I have an ex. We'll say he's "the" ex, considering we dated for over a year, few months off, another year+. He talked a lot aobut engagement (I always expressed my apprehensions about being too young, him needing to finish school, etc) we stayed together while he was at basic training for the National Guard... in short, things were serious.
Due to unfortunate events (aka, him being a jerk), I kicked the a-hole to the curb this past winter (should have done it much sooner, whole nother story there).
So, lately... he's been trying to get ahold of me.
- On my birthday at about 6AM he left a VM on my work phone (what a wuss, couldn't even call when he thought I could pick up?)
- About a month ago he called about 4x in a half hour (I was actually hanging out on a date- how embarassing), and then again a week later. No voicemail
- last week got a text "sure wish you'd talk to me"
- Now today, he called my work phone (can't screen calls, no caller ID) so I picked up. Was pretty PO'd but tried to maintain my composure since I'm at work and told him it was inappropriate to call me here, then hung up on him...
I suspect his re-bound girl dumped him, or something. I'm going to get a new cell #, but wtf can I do about him stalking me @ work?!