He told me last Saturday. Weird how that just changes so darn much. Well... errrm... It doesn't change a thing. He's still my brother in law, and my best friend. I just got to know him a bit better.
Does explain why he was so cranky for the past half year. Was quite a load to bear, not being able to get it off your cheast. I'm glad he told me, he brightened up instantly. Feels good to be able to talk to him again and see his smile again. Every time I asked him if something was wrong, he told me he was ok, and was doing fine. Knowing he wasn't I just had to wait and see if things got better.
When I look at some details in his life, yeah, I could have know he is gay. But obvious? Not at all. He just likes to go shopping, watches America's Next Top Model and didn't pay attention to girls at all.
Only thing that could potentially bother me is that we've been roomies for over a year. Though, I don't think he already knew back then...
Still feel a bit weird, anyone have some tips on how to deal with this?