I have a major wedding attendance dillema.
Normally I really abhor these things and substitute
gifts for attendance but in this case I really feel like
I should go and I kinda want to.
Here's the facts:
The friend is a dear friend but one I haven't been in frequent
touch with for several years. Now we call each other a few times
a year. Wedding is about one day away--could conceivably fly down
the night before, attend, fly back.
The wedding however occurs on a week when I am likely to have a large
permit application due. If this thing gets messed up it could delay construction
on a flood control project. Bad. I don't know fore sure the application will be
due that week but it probably will be a scramble.
I really want to attend and I feel like a heel for letting work make me think
twice. I also really don't feel like anything should get in the way of me
clearing my plate so I can even work on the weekend to deliver on time